After marriage, women often face many things, such as how to deal with problems between their mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or even between their sister-in-law, such as how to maintain emotional issues between husband and wife... These things suddenly press on women, and many women lose their rational direction at once.
In fact, there is no need to do this, especially when dealing with marital issues. Smart women can use these tips to keep their emotions fresh.
Make an appointment plan
Don't let the romance between husband and wife gradually drain away because of the birth of a child. Once this happens, the danger is instantaneous.
In order not to let each other lose their romance, you can make a perennial dating plan that does not include the shadow of children. Give two people a space to get along alone, even during quiet communication such as driving on the road or in a coffee shop, you will find that their feelings have increased significantly in an instant.
Unwanted surprises
Dating can add to each other's feelings, and occasional accidents can sometimes be a sublimation agent for formal relationships.
When we are in the same state all the time, we know each other's familiarity with this environment and characters like the palm of our fingers, so the occasional surprise will make you forget your usual fatigue, and unexpected surprises will follow.
So on an occasional night, suddenly wearing a sexy lingerie or sticking a Durex to your belly... How can a man stand such a surprise?
Play Missing
Just like the nature of a new marriage, we can also play and disappear without our husband's knowledge.
Turn off the phone for 5 minutes and deliberately avoid appearing in a better place. Then you observe his condition from a place where you can see him. At this time, you will find that men are even more frantic because of the fear of losing you in a moment.
When you suddenly appear in front of him again, all the love and fear of loss must be in a hug without saying anything.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)