These men will call their lovers good friends. They are very happy together, without family constraints and responsibilities. They put aside all worries and enjoy the fun of fish and water. This feeling is not experienced in family life. Of course, they will not share weal and woe with their wives for such happiness.
Sex undoubtedly plays an important role in marriage. Due to the lack of sexual knowledge, some couples seem to be separated from each other. This situation is not only limited to teenagers, but also to couples with marriageable age who do not have a good understanding of this aspect, resulting in sexual apathy or sexual boredom.
Few men with "flower hearts" will pursue "platonic" spiritual love. Most men have extramarital love to make up for the sexual satisfaction that is difficult to experience in marriage.
In marriage life, men's sexual expectations are generally high. If the wife cannot meet him, such imbalance is very likely to lead to extramarital affairs.
Compared with men, women have not yet broken away from the shackles of traditional concepts and have a refusal attitude towards sex. In the absence of coercion, the knot of affection becomes tighter and tighter, which eventually leads to the derailment of marriage. Men have to go to other women to seek comfort and compensation.