Whether it is a star or an ordinary person, sister-brother love often happens. There is such a couple around Xiaobian. The woman is six years older than the man. It seems that the relationship between the two is quite good. However, there are some people who are not optimistic about sister-brother love, and even slander sister-brother love. Gender health experts say that this is very wrong, because sister-brother love can also bring benefits to people.
Q: I am 38 years old, 10 years older than my boyfriend. Our sexual life is very harmonious now, but I am worried that 10 years later, I have entered menopause and my physical condition is not as good as before. Will our age and physical differences affect the harmony of sexual life?
A: Sister-brother love is actually a good choice. Generally, women's sexual desire is stronger between the ages of 30 and 40. This is because the female sex hormone reaches the highest level around the age of 35, which is also the peak of sexual desire. Due to the influence of some concepts such as culture and society, women's sexual psychology before the age of 30 is conservative, reserved and reserved. They dare not show their sexual needs boldly to show their dignity and dignity. After the age of 30, especially for women with a history of procreation, all these psychological problems gradually disappeared. They reversed their previous "passive state" in sexual life and began to express their sexual needs boldly and unambiguously. It makes some men feel "at a loss", which is actually a normal physiological phenomenon. Therefore, the folk saying that "thirty is like a wolf and forty is like a tiger" is not unreasonable.
Men are different. The highest age of sexual hormone level is around 20 years old, and the sexual desire is also the strongest at this time. Therefore, some foreign people once said that in order to achieve sexual harmony and happiness, men should marry at the age of 20 and women at the age of 30, so that the sexual desire of the two people is relatively matched in life. It is certainly difficult to do this in real life, because marriage is determined by many factors. Since you have come together, and women's sexual desire begins to decline at the age of 70, you don't have to worry about any big differences in the future, or even can't adapt to it, so go ahead and cherish it.
The reason why some people don't like brotherhood is that they are influenced by our traditional culture and even comfortable with some feudal superstitions. In fact, Xiaobian is still in favor of sister-brother love, because women mature earlier and can take better care of men. Isn't it good for men to take care of women when they are mature?