Post Date December, 03 2023
1. She doesn't monopolize you, but she shares your heart
When you are sick in bed and fighting with pain, the person who holds your hand in a panic and tears in his face must be his wife. She was afraid of your pain and death. She wished to hurt and die for you. Her crying and obsession move you and make you feel uneasy. But the confidant of beauty doesn't cry. She just stands at the head of the bed, looks at you quietly, reads your heart, and then uses her mouth, her eyes, and her heart to tell you that she knows where your pain is, she understands you, and is willing to share for you silently, so that your soul is no longer lonely, and you are pleased. This shows the essential difference between the two: crying is because of loving you; Don't cry because you understand.
A man, if there is a woman in his life who deeply loves you and can have a woman who understands you, what can he ask for?
2. Beauty confidants are all girls with supreme wisdom
A woman who can be a confidant of beauty knows the most from the bottom of her heart: if a woman wants to be eternal in a man's life, she must either be his mother or be a confidant of beauty that he will never get. I understand him, but it doesn't belong to him.
Give him enough care, but don't give him deep feelings, don't give him the threat that you will fall in love with him, and don't let him have the impulse and enthusiasm to fall in love with you. This is the skill of being a confidant of beauty. In the final analysis, beauty confidants contain many things. Love is too short, marriage is too boring, and only female confidants can last long. Therefore, women who can be content to be a man's confidant are usually open-minded and intelligent.
3. Satisfy men's vanity
Some women are born to be friends. They like relaxed relationships and hate bondage like men. This is undoubtedly the type of friend that more men appreciate. So even if it is not so "confidant", men also like to make friends with such women.
Enjoying the care and intimacy of women other than wives or lovers can greatly satisfy men's vanity.
4. Beauty confidant, the most perfect listener
Usually, the wife is the talker, while the confidant is the listener. In front of her, a man can be a tired bird, a prodigal son, and can be tired, lonely, helpless, evasive, and lazy, while she can accept your dark night, give you quiet, and do your energy recovery space. Therefore, the confidant of beauty is the peerless beauty.
If the wife is the sun and the lover is the moon, then the confidant is the star. When the sun and the moon are tired, the stars are not. They are flickering and indistinct. They are willing to be lonely but bright and long.
No matter how high you are in front of others, you should not look up. In the eyes of your confidant, there is only dignity and no dignity. She can walk through layers of masks, enter into your heart like no one, and communicate with you in a language that you and she both understand.
5. There is only a paper between a confidant and a lover
If you like a woman, you can let her become your confidante first, and penetrate her heart in the slow emotional exchange. In the continuous understanding, you can find that the two people's feelings are warming up, so when the physical relationship occurs, and then become a lover is only a matter of subjective will.
But once a relationship occurs, your relationship will no longer be just a friend, but a lover, and your relationship model will be completely different. So, it is easy to have friends of the opposite sex, but it is not easy to find a confidant, and meet and cherish them.
(Intern editor: Chen Hao)
