Post Date December, 03 2023
The Analects of Confucius: "I have five out of ten and am determined to learn, and I will stand at thirty." This is the ancient view of standing at thirty. So far, it still applies. So why don't 30-year-old men marry? Do you know? Don't worry. Next, the Xiaobian of Kanglu.com summarized for you the nine reasons why men who are thirty don't marry. Let's have a look!
Why don't men in their thirties marry? 1. They have too much life pressure
In modern society, the main pressure is not only from work, but also from life. Facing the challenges of marriage, it is not as simple as making friends. It is necessary to solve a series of practical problems such as house and car, and these life pressures can make men choose to give up marriage.
Why don't men in their thirties marry? 2. They don't have enough money
In addition to houses and cars, it is more important to have enough money to live. From the moment when we are about to say goodbye to being single, we should spend money to cultivate feelings. The preparation work between marriage is basically accompanied by money, and the life after marriage is naturally impossible without enough money.
Why don't men at thirty get married? 3. Pick and choose
Maybe they have talked about many girlfriends, including those who live together, and when they face the sensitive word of marriage, they always can't bear to bury themselves quickly, so they start to pick one after another. In the end, what they like, others feel uncomfortable, and what others like, they don't like.
Why don't men in their thirties marry? 4. For the so-called study and career
I think I have no end in learning and have been in a state of learning. As a result, I have studied for an undergraduate course in a junior college, and then studied for a postgraduate course. I still want to study for a doctoral degree after finishing the postgraduate course. I am more than 30 years old. I just work and I am not willing to mention marriage. In order to have more choices in the future, I have been in a state of waiting.
Why don't men at thirty marry? 5. celibates
Obviously, they don't want to get married, like celibacy, like freedom, don't like to be bound by others, and don't need to be bound by life. Especially married men, of course, are not as free as unmarried men, so most of the post-70s male celibates are selfish.
Why don't men at thirty marry? 6. wait-and-see players
Cohabitation can be done, but it is absolutely not allowed to study the major issues of marriage, even those who have cohabited for a long time. Some people who have cohabited for many years are unwilling to mention marriage. If their girlfriend puts forward it, they will find a reasonable and grand reason for her to wait. This is a typical wait-and-see player of post-70s men. We are in the bowl, but also looking at the pot.
Why don't men at thirty marry? 7. Afraid of taking responsibility
This kind of post-70s man has his own small calculation. He has a clear target of attack, but he has not succeeded yet. So, let's delay first. If he succeeds, he will change the target of attack. If he fails, he will find a woman in front of him. He is seriously afraid of taking responsibility and stealing opportunities.
Why don't men at thirty get married? 8. Feelings have been seriously hit
Most post-70s men are more rational about marriage and also more obedient to their parents' opinions. After all, men in that era still have a sense of obedience to the overall situation in their bones. As a result, they often hurt themselves because of obedience to the overall situation. After a serious emotional blow, they have no confidence in love.
Why don't men at thirty marry? 9. Women who don't really love
It's easy to like a woman, but this kind of love can never reach the point of love, just like it, so we can only choose to talk, chat, cohabit for a period of time and then talk about whether we can get married, and the final result is to choose single. This kind of man is fragile in nature, and generally doesn't believe in true love.
The above is a detailed introduction about why men in their thirties don't marry. I hope it will help you to further understand men's psychology. Therefore, in daily life, the majority of male friends try to get married and start a family at the marriageable age, and actively pursue their own happiness, and strive to achieve the goal of "holding the hand of the son and growing old with the son".
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
