Post Date December, 03 2023
Q: After my promotion, my husband's sexual demands increased, and sometimes he was very tired and even forced me. I can only say clearly, 'I'm tired and don't want to'. At this point, the usually open-minded husband becomes particularly angry and appears particularly "cautious", causing them to leave each other unhappily. What should be done to get rid of this situation?
Answer: Understanding your husband's sexual psychological feelings is the most important thing you need to do at present. Your promotion makes him feel disappointed. In sexual life, try to conquer you and show his strong side. The refusal at this point would make him particularly injured. He subconsciously hopes that you can accept him, attach to him, and show your flexibility. At this point, if you say things like 'No way!' or 'I'm too tired', he may lack his usual tolerance and develop a sense of dissatisfaction. If he often refuses his sexual demands, he may stop courtship behavior, as the disharmony of sexual life affects both parties' emotions.
Don't completely refuse your husband's courtship, it's not that you always have to comply with him in sexual life, but it's obviously inappropriate to refuse or blame too much. You should understand that this is a vulnerable point in men's sexual psychology. You can say, "I love you very much, but I was too tired from work today. Can tomorrow morning be okay, Helps to warm up emotions.
(Intern Editor: Chen Hao)
