Every man has a "red flag at home and a fluttering heart outside", either a spiritual betrayal or a physical betrayal. Anyway, they all have a restless heart. Sometimes there is no extramarital affair but time is not allowed, so when is the easiest time for a man to cheat?
Before and after the wife became pregnant
Due to the fact that a wife is often preoccupied with her own affairs during a certain period, some playful husbands are prone to exhibit irritability and seek comfort from other members of the opposite sex. To this end, during pregnancy, a wife should strive to control her own emotional fluctuations and try to maintain her attractiveness. In particular, she should use the role of expectant mother and father to enhance their feelings.
When the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is not harmonious
Discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law often affects marriage. This is a tricky topic for husbands. When he cannot handle it, he will abandon himself and flee alone.
When you feel down at work
People need to find a fulcrum and happiness in their work. Once faced with unemployment and frustration, it is inevitable that they will feel overwhelmed and lost. "If you do not receive the strong closing of the glass and support from your wife at this time, it is easy to make your feelings run away from the family. Your wife must not be careless.".
When the bit changes
It goes without saying that we are full of warmth and lust. In addition to being happy with the progress of the husband, the wife also has a sense of pressure on herself, and strives to transform the pressure into skill, constantly seeking progress. "Never hold the old tune of respecting your husband and wife, because it can only make you sit back and enjoy your success without thinking about making progress.". "Once your husband feels that you can't make it, he may run away on his own, and then you can only sit back and cry. It's no use.".
When family changes occur
There is an example of a couple who originally loved each other so much that their 3-year-old daughter suddenly died of illness. Under great sadness, the wife complained all day about her husband's failure to take care of her daughter, which made her husband unbearable and had to flee. She went out to drink, gamble, and stay out at night, until she had an extramarital affair and left home. Therefore, when similar situations occur, blaming, complaining, resenting, and struggling are all of no avail. Only a peaceful, positive, and common attitude can face misfortune. This is especially noteworthy for more emotional wives.
After separation
If you are forced to live apart due to work, household registration, or other reasons, maintaining close contact is essential. Modern methods of communication are diverse, including letters, emails, and telephones, which can be used comprehensively to weave a network of emotions. Of course, it is best to arrange time for gatherings on holidays or special occasions such as birthdays and wedding anniversaries. As for artificial separation due to conflicts, a problem-solving attitude should be applied to treat it calmly and should not be blindly angry, as anger can only drive people crazy and make them seek emotional affairs. Moreover, this separation can only be done occasionally, and a short time limit should also be set. Once separation becomes a habit, it becomes easy to break up.
The above cannot be generalized. But by guarding the lost pass, you can keep the city intact. Seizing the moment when the six husbands are prone to derailment can achieve twice the result with half the effort and protect a happy and happy family.