Post Date December, 02 2023
When I see how long a long-distance relationship can last, it reminds me how long a marriage can last? For similar questions, I really can't give a clear answer. Because apart from geographical factors, other factors are also very important. Take me as an example. I have had four relationships in total. The first time was with boys from the same university. The following three times are long-distance love. But my first and the first two long-distance relationships broke up within three months. The last time we had a long-distance relationship, we had a long-distance relationship for nearly three years. Later, the two talents managed to work in the same city. Now that we have married and had children, our life is very sweet. If you really want to answer the question of how long a long-distance relationship can last, the answer is: you can do it as long as you want.
First of all, when we see the disadvantages of long-distance love, we should also see the advantages of long-distance love. The disadvantage of long-distance love is that two people are often not together, which will affect their communication. Because two people can't rely on each other and accompany each other at any time, they will also face the temptation around them. And the trust between two people is the most important factor that affects the development of long-distance love. What are the advantages of long-distance love? First, two people can only see each other for a long time, which can keep the freshness between two people fresh. Second, they spend less time running in together, so there will be less bumps. Third, both are relatively free, which is conducive to the free development of both sides. Fourth, each other is concerned about a person, which is actually a very happy thing.
Secondly, in order to make long-distance love lasting, we must learn to overcome some disadvantages of long-distance love. In the first two or three months when you and I were together, both of them were very close to each other, and they would indeed face a test, that is, whether the other party could come to their side in time. At this time, if one party especially wants to see the other party, and the other party always has no time to see, it will give the more dependent party a feeling of not loving her. It is easy to break up. Therefore, in the early attachment period, both parties may sometimes need to sacrifice their work or study time appropriately to accompany each other as much as possible. After two or three months of sticky time and after both parties have established a certain emotional foundation, we should consider some practical factors.
After the relationship has entered a stable period, it is easy for both parties to feel that there is no other person like the other, and at this time, it is also easy to encounter the crisis of breaking up. Therefore, in the period of stability, both sides must find common goals for each other. At this time, we need to consider the future of two people together and work together for the common future.
When two people are at odds, don't argue with each other in different places, which can easily lead to breaking up. It is better for one party to make concessions to coax the other party first, and then hold the other party in his arms when the two meet.
