What to do if the second married wife doesn't behave properly and always flirts with netizens after marriage

I have been married to my wife for three years. She is a second marriage and has a three year old child. After getting married, she had some time with two men, and I forgave her. Later on, she got pregnant and had an abortion at her mother's house. She didn't tell me immediately and only found out by calling her, but her family didn't even know about it. They hadn't lived at home for two months, so I mentioned this to her brother because her words were too harsh and she was very angry with me. Later on, we also made up.

Another time I found out that a netizen called her wife, and she said it was someone else's business to call her. I forgave her once again.

Until this time, she went back to her mother's house to work on a few small projects with several of her classmates. Once again, I found out that she was chatting with netizens recklessly, so I proposed a divorce. However, she said she didn't really apologize to me, just went back to work on the project, and wanted to make an appointment with me for two years. If we were all alone, I don't know if this persistence is still meaningful? Brother Shan gave me some guidance on the maze.

reply:

1. According to experience, people who have experienced the baptism of marriage once either cherish it or hide their hearts after remarriage. Therefore, choosing to marry a second married person requires even more caution.

2. Your wife may feel uneasy after marriage, either having bad contact with other men or constantly chatting with netizens. This shows that she is not a woman who can live a stable life and may not love you enough. The fact that she has had such a big miscarriage without telling you in the first place is the best proof. She is separated from you, and it seems that your relationship foundation is very weak.

3. If your marriage is neither hot nor cold, neither salty nor light, and you lack the minimum respect and trust between each other, it's better to make plans as early as possible to cope with your depression. Perhaps she is still not satisfied with you enough, she actually left a way for herself, which means she has put her stable heart in two years. Before that, you are more suitable to be her spare tire. Where to go? Let's make a decision on our own!