Post Date December, 03 2023
With more and more open minds, many young people are now experiencing premarital cohabitation. However, women must remember not to easily regard cohabitation as the first step towards marriage, because once easily available to men, it will only reduce their sense of responsibility. Women's premarital cohabitation costs are high, and cohabitation should be cautious.
Cost 1: Physiological cost
Women age earlier than men, and their physical functions begin to decline at the age of 25. After a few years of cohabitation, the woman is still aging, the man is still young, the sexual life has run out, the bride and groom are still powerful, and their careers have risen, but the two parties may not necessarily be able to enter a marriage.
Cost 2: Economic Cost
When falling in love, most men will actively pay the bill, and of course, the AA system is also a very reasonable and fashionable way. Once cohabiting, the two parties transform into an awkward relationship that is neither love nor marriage, reducing the romance of love but increasing the financial burden.
Cost Three: Psychological Cost
After cohabitation, men's psychological confidence explodes because they know better how to please and deal with women, and they have more experience with women; After cohabitation, women often leave a psychological shadow and become less confident, preferring to marry rather than enjoy love when dealing with their next relationship.
Cost 4: Social and cultural costs
At present, there may be a tolerant attitude towards cohabitation in society, but tolerance does not represent affirmation. From ancient times to the present, if men fall in love and live together again and again and break up, they will be referred to as "romantic and romantic". Such experiences, in the eyes of men, have also become their capital to show off.
The same situation is not glamorous for women, who are often regarded as "narcissistic" and "withering flowers and withering willows".
Cost 5: Cost of physical health
The physical characteristics of men and women determine that after cohabitation, women are prone to infections such as gynecological diseases. If you accidentally become pregnant, it can cause significant harm to women's health, and improper treatment can easily leave sequelae. The risk of pregnancy is almost entirely borne by women.
Many people believe that as long as they think they don't suffer, the outside world's perception is not important. However, social culture is tolerant of men's flirtatiousness, but demanding of women. When women fall in love or enter marriage again, they have to withstand much more social opinion than men. This is not fair, but it is reality, at least for the moment.
