Post Date December, 03 2023
Is tall, rich and handsome a charming person? In love, we all like to make excuses for ourselves, because being rejected is like being denied personality. No matter how tall, handsome and rich you are, you may be rejected.
In particular, the better the conditions, the more afraid of being rejected, just like the more beautiful and the better the figure of a woman, when rejected, they feel that they have been so good, but also rejected, which is basically like determining their own life value. That's why love is frightening.
However, there are too many excuses in the world for us to use. I am not handsome enough, I am not strong enough, I am not rich enough, I have no car and no house, and so on. Rich people say they are not handsome enough, and handsome people say they are not rich enough. Anyway, you must find a reasonable excuse, because no one can have everything, even if there is, it is very rare.
What kind of boys are attractive? The first and most important thing to ask you to do is to stop being a victim and stop making excuses for yourself. If you think that women just like what you don't have, then don't let women love you in your life.
Because you will always have what you don't have, and you can't get it all. Women are not the perpetrators. There are too many people around me who are not tall, handsome, and rich. They are surrounded by many men who adore his women. Such men not only turn a blind eye, but will only say that it is an exception, but will not find the answer.
Women really like being tall, rich and handsome, just like men like being white and thin, which is just a kind of appearance. I believe that men don't want women to think that men are superficial and brainless creatures who only look at their appearance, do they?
At least I believe that men are not like this. I think men are animals that pay more attention to vision than women, but women around me who are often loved by men are usually not white and thin.
Tall, rich and handsome, white and skinny are just the objects that everyone likes to watch and fantasize about. Look at the people who are really chasing white and skinny are the men who few people are chasing back. The women who will really stick to high, rich and handsome are those whose values are the highest and their hearts are dry.
However, it is usually not white, thin and beautiful that will really make Gao Fushui catch up with her. It is usually not Gao Fushui that will really make a woman die. Maybe they will have very, very many advantages at the beginning, but if the love relationship is going to be long, will tall, rich and handsome, white and thin really make each other happy and satisfied?
If the answer is no, are you admitting that the girls you like are all brainless and superficial? How can you be better if you like this kind of person? If your answer is yes, how can you blame those people? Anyway, I think you have no position to be a victim?
The charm of a man comes from his maturity in dealing with things, his relaxed attitude in facing things, his willingness to gain and lose, and his attitude of never shirking his responsibilities.
People who want to be handsome need to be handsome because they are not handsome. People who want to pretend to be sweet need to pretend because they are not cute. A person who needs to prove something means that he has no characteristics to prove. These are not from appearance, but from attitude.
An attractive man will not ask others, but himself.
The same goes for attractive women. A person's high wealth and handsome make him ahead of the starting point, but it doesn't mean that he will run ahead of you. The attractive person doesn't care about it, but runs straight ahead. He focuses on whether he has run ahead, rather than arguing with the referee in the same place about why that person's starting point is ahead.
Charming people will be responsible for themselves. There are causes and results in this world. As long as we find the causes that can be changed, we can change the results. Let go of the reason that cannot be changed. Whether it is good or bad, people who can accept it are called mature. They will be themselves and do not compare with others, but not put on a bad show, but have a clear conscience.
