How far is the distance between reality and romance? The relationship between cohabiting men and women is most evident. Men, from initially believing that women are spiritual when they first met them, to cohabiting and realizing that women are material, is only a romantic to real transformation.
Cohabitating women mistakenly treat promises as' debts'
Many women mistake a man's promise as a debt, thinking that holding it in their hands can ultimately realize their rights, but in fact, it is not the case. Promises are not written in black and white, and even if they have legal effect, they cannot be forcibly bought or sold.
He promised to love you for a lifetime. At the beginning of his love, he promised to marry you, but in the end, he didn't marry you. What should he do? What you have in hand is real, which is the million IOUs in your hand or the 100000 cash in your wallet?
Women are most afraid of being kept in the dark. Wholeheartedly managing the cohabitation world, waiting for the realization of marriage, unexpectedly, the other party has already had no permanent plans. Friend A is an example of falling in love with a woman who is slightly older than oneself, cohabiting, and finding out over time that a woman is not suitable to marry back home as a wife.
The mother was not satisfied with the woman, and when A was with her friends, she also showed a clear understanding, but the woman herself was unaware. Every time I see a woman's sweet and gentle smile, I can't help but feel a slight chill in my heart. Marriage may still be a beautiful dream that can be touched in a woman's heart, while others have no responsibility to blow through the soap bubble.
Ten breakups for women are all fake, and one breakup for men is real
I believe that women say ten breakups are all fake, and I believe men say one breakup is real.
A quarrel leads to a woman breaking up; Life is boring, women say goodbye; Seized the computer, the woman complained about wanting to break up; The infidelity, the woman with a runny nose and tears wanting to break up... In the end, as long as coaxing, the deadlock will be saved.
I don't want to hear men say goodbye, and I don't know how to face men's determination. Calm down, my heart is bleeding; Cry, the other person hates it even more; Don't express yourself, don't be reconciled... What about the end? It can really redeem a man's determination to break up, and his future life will also be trembling. However, men do not easily say goodbye.
In the life of cohabitation, the last thing one should think about is' why should I do this while the other person doesn't take the initiative? '. Countless times I have touched the shoulds and wrongs of myself and others, and a poignant feeling arises.
Women, should we cook?! Men, should we make money?! So if women don't cook, what if men don't earn money... A series of contradictions accumulate in the small things of sesame mung beans. In the end, men are tired because they are used to patience, but they are thinking about whether to endure for a lifetime. At this point, it's time to get married again.