Post Date December, 03 2023
After marriage, men are not only prone to change in body shape, but also in mentality. What psychological changes do men often have after marriage?
1. Become lazy
Before he got a woman, the man was very diligent. He kept his house neat and clean. He would also show off for his girlfriend and cook some special dishes.
After having a woman, the mess is not because the man is lazy, but because the man likes to watch the woman clean up things for him while nagging about his untidiness. The man thinks this is a kind of happiness.
2. To become delicate
Men are the strong backing of women before they get women. After getting a woman, a man becomes delicate
In fact, it is not because men become delicate, but because men like to see women worry about him and look anxious. Men think this is a kind of happiness.
3. Become vulnerable
In the eyes of women, men are strong and indestructible. Men bravely bear everything before they get a woman. After getting the woman, the man realized that the reason why he didn't cry is because he didn't reach the sad place.
In fact, a man's heart is very fragile. He has been able to bear so much for many years. He needs care and care, and hopes to get more love, especially from his lover.
4. More and more afraid of loneliness
Before getting a woman, a man does everything by himself. Go home alone after work, tidy up the house alone, eat alone, sleep alone... Men enjoy their loneliness alone.
After getting a woman, men are afraid of loneliness. This is because men are often more afraid of loneliness than women. Under social pressure, they are born with a sense of loneliness. They need the company of women.
5. Become tolerant
Before getting a woman, a man is very overbearing and thinks that he should obey everything. After getting a woman, the man knows that the woman has grown up, and some things can't be interfered with by the man.
Men become tolerant and no longer require women to open up their careers and enjoy their lives.
6. More mutual accommodation
Before getting a woman, a man always says to a woman: to love a person is to accept his shortcomings, let a woman accept everything of her, and he also accepts her shortcomings.
After getting a woman, a man will use practical actions to prove this sentence. But when he accepts a woman's shortcomings, he will be more strict with himself, get rid of his shortcomings, make himself more perfect, and let women no longer have to endure his shortcomings.
In fact, it is understandable for men to change their minds, and it belongs to the past. But for women, if they want to change from passive to active, they should also learn appropriate flexibility. Otherwise, they can only be regarded as emotional puppets and cannot live the life they want.
