Post Date December, 03 2023
Some women believe that the reason why men have extramarital affairs or go to have sex with other women is because they have money, so controlling money can curb cheating. In fact, this theory is wrong. Money is only the material part of an extramarital relationship. If a man's heart cannot be tied, even if he has no money, he will cheat.
Control a man's wallet, but not his heart
In life, when women focus on men's wallets, their essence is to focus on men themselves. A woman will think that as long as she keeps a man's wallet in check, she can secure his heart and prevent him from getting into trouble outside.
In fact, it's not like women imagine. If a man who is already very flirtatious, even if a woman manages all his expenses, but cannot manage a man's heart, they will definitely do everything possible to touch an extramarital relationship, perhaps by giving it to someone else, or simply seeking the pleasure of making love.
But for a man who is loyal to his family, if his wife overrules, it can backfire. A man may feel that his wife does not trust him, and when a woman appears that makes him feel able to trust each other, they are prone to emotional transfer. Such results are all caused by the woman herself, who herself has pushed the man she originally loved deeply to another woman.
Smart women will not over restrict men, they will treat men in their own unique ways, allowing them to obediently and sincerely obey themselves. Women should understand that although they can temporarily control a man's "wallet", they cannot truly control a man's heart.
