Post Date December, 02 2023
? When two people fall in love, they focus more on their emotions. However, the two individuals come from two different families. What should we do when our relationship is opposed by the male partner's parents, and where should our love go? How can love be saved when family members oppose it? In fact, the parents of the male partner object more by considering the practical issues after marriage. So, we need to analyze the specific issues based on the reasons for the opposition of our boyfriend's parents.
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Asymmetric educational background
When the male partner's parents object to your boyfriend's love affair based on your educational background asymmetry, you need to consider whether you can accept the gap between the other person and you in the future. There is a significant cultural gap between two people, and communication can be problematic. The reason why the parents of the man object is also because they consider the practical issues between you and your marriage in the future. Of course, if you can accept the other person, then you will find ways to improve them. If your education is lower than that of the other party, then you need to consider whether you can meet their requirements in the future and whether you have any ideas for self-improvement. Because if you have a big gap with the other party, you will often have many problems in the future.
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a marriage between families of equal social rank
Whether this idea is correct or not depends on the way you and your boyfriend will get along in the future. If the other party's parents opposed this matter from the beginning, then there must be a significant gap between your two families. There are many frictions and conflicts after marriage. So, you also need to think carefully about whether you have the courage to face the trivial things in your future life. Sometimes the family opposition in a relationship can be a test for you, at least giving you the opportunity to choose not to be together. So, you should take a rational look at this matter, carefully examine your love, and even start thinking about your future life. If your boyfriend doesn't love you as much as you imagine, you have to take responsibility for your own life. There is no need for compromise love, because it was like this from the beginning, and in the future, things will happen again after marriage.
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live in two places
If your boyfriend's parents use the excuse of living apart as an excuse to oppose you being together, then you need to consider whether you can give up your current job for your boyfriend and the sense of instability you will face when you move to the other person's location after giving up your job. After all, we still have to live with each other after marriage, and the two places themselves are not realistic, especially after having children. So, at this point, it's important to consider everything and make a choice. Either give up your current job or see if your boyfriend is willing to come to you. There is no perfect thing in life. When it comes to making a decision, it's time to make a decision. Life is about constantly making choices and moving forward.
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Excessive material desires
If your boyfriend's parents dislike you for having too much material desire. So at this point, you need to pay attention to whether you can adjust yourself. In general, parents come through hard work and struggle, and their lives are relatively frugal. Parents hope that their children and daughter-in-law can have a happy and stable home in the future. If there is too much material desire, then one will not know how to satisfy and keep one's job, which is a very taboo for parents. So, learn to work hard with your boyfriend and become rich together. Parents' hearts are generally for the good of their children, and if they can understand this, all problems can be easily solved.
When in love, both parties are in love, but marriage involves two families. When your boyfriend's parents object, you need to understand how to adjust yourself and consider the problem in the long run, so that you can jump out of the problem and see the essence of the problem. Then make an effort to try, persevere and make concessions, only in this way can we work together with our boyfriend to overcome difficulties and build happiness together.
