Post Date December, 02 2023
Data shows that approximately 1.82 million couples in China divorce each year, with an average of 5000 couples per day. In fact, there are some signs of marital problems, and timely handling can prevent marital breakdown.
Some signals of marital problems can help prevent them from happening.
There is no common language. Even if you spend a few hours alone with your partner, there won't be much conversation, and silence without communication is one of the biggest taboos in marriage.
Nothing is right. In the eyes of one party, the other party is always blamed for doing anything wrong, which leads to blaming and arguing with each other for trivial matters.
Always getting information about your partner from others. How do you know about your partner's recent work status and physical issues? Did you hear it through face-to-face communication or from a third person? If the other party no longer keeps you updated, be aware that there may be significant issues with marital communication.
A sudden change in appearance. Even in a happy family, the appearance and attire of both parties can change, provided that both parties are willing to accept each other's changes. But when there is a marital crisis, your partner may suddenly change, becoming neat and messy, indicating that the other party may no longer care about your opinions.
Avoiding problems. If both spouses are unable to coexist in a quiet environment and always find reasons to watch TV, read books, or go their separate ways, then it may indicate that you are deliberately avoiding issues in your marriage. Unfortunately, no one is willing to actively seek solutions to these problems.
Always arguing for the same reason. It is inevitable for couples to argue, but if they repeatedly argue over a problem without a solution, it may mean that the marriage is deadlocked or entering a dead end. At this point, it is important to seek help from others as soon as possible to resolve the problem as soon as possible.
Long time no intimacy. Physical intimacy is the recognition and permission of each other's marital relationship, and if the other party no longer shows interest and willingness in this regard, it will also cast a shadow on the couple's emotions.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
