Post Date December, 03 2023
With the continuous development of society, the internet is becoming more and more developed. Due to the demand for work and personal reasons, there are more and more couples living in different places. In their spare time after work, they use the internet to chat and express their love for each other. Some of them will also prepare their flight tickets on weekends, fly back to their small nest, reunite once, and of course, some may take a month or even a few months, It will take another year and a half to get together.
Living in two separate places, one can only rely on the internet to solve their longing. This topic may sound cruel and difficult to accept, but if you think about it carefully, it may not be a bad thing.
People are always imperfect, and each person has their own temper to some extent. When two people fall in love or get married for many years and face each other every day, those shortcomings will be unconsciously exposed. Over time, they will gradually lose patience, and emotions will come. This is why there is the saying 'marriage is the tomb of love'. In fact, it is not true that what truly brings love to the grave is just that they have been together for too long, It's just exposing one's own nature, of course, there's nothing wrong with it. It's important to remember that the people around you will be the ones who accompany you for a lifetime. It's exhausting to cover things up every day, just like when we first met each other. However, the two of us have to face each other four times a day, and we also have to deal with daily necessities. Who wouldn't get upset? Over time, it's inevitable that there will be arguments and arguments, and many people start to think that marriage has gone wrong, In fact, it's just a matter of distance between you two. If we were to live apart, busy with work during the day, and unable to come back at night, there wouldn't be enough time to argue. Moreover, even if there are many things that are a bit annoying, it feels like it's difficult to solve them through arguments across the internet. Even if there are disagreements and arguments, there is still enough time and space to put down the phone and turn off the internet, Giving each other time to calm down and think is called 'distance produces beauty'.
This is just one of the benefits of living apart. In addition, the distance between the two can also make each other feel free. Of course, this freedom does not mean to do as you want, but rather the lack of that kind of constraint in your heart. However, this needs to be built on mutual trust and understanding between the two, as well as mutual respect. You cannot let yourself be free from constraints just because there are no constraints, and you should love and respect each other, Only in this way can this relationship be separated from each other and only have thoughts and expectations, and then try to take some time to fly together and have a small gathering. As the saying goes, 'Farewell is better than newlywed', thinking about it is beautiful. If suddenly attacked again, when your husband (wife) or boyfriend (girlfriend) is holding a pillow at home, missing you and unable to sleep, suddenly returning home, that kind of surprise and wordless romance, Will it make the other party happy and forget themselves.
Think about this kind of separation between two places, is it relatively better than the long days and nights, and easier to retain the relationship? The relationship will not be diluted by time and arguments, but will also become more intense due to those small surprises and missing. However, it is important to remember to take more time to get together, have a meal, go shopping, watch movies, review and consolidate the relationship. Sometimes physical friction is always warmer than facing the internet.
