In couples who understand love, mutual ridicule can evolve into a form of humor, while in couples who do not understand love, mutual ridicule can evolve into a war. This is the "law of ridicule" between couples. Especially in the sexual life of couples, inappropriate ridicule can make the other party feel awkward.
On the 10th of last month, it was the second anniversary of Ruping's marriage to her husband. After work, Ruping prepared some of her husband's favorite dishes at home and then wore a sexy lace black dress to surprise her husband. Previously, her husband had taken the initiative to "give her". This time, she wanted to take the initiative to "invade" her husband.
Ruping became more and more excited as she thought about it. When her husband went to take a bath, she was ready to throw herself into his arms.
When her husband came out of the bathroom, Ruping hugged him from behind, and then fondled him intoxicated little by little.
"What's wrong with you tonight?" Ruping's husband suddenly turned around and said to her. Originally, he was just a casual remark, but it made Ruping feel uncomfortable when she was intoxicated. He thought her husband was satirizing her "sexual behavior.".
"Men can take the initiative when they want, why can't women take the initiative?" Ruping said angrily to her husband.
"But you've never done this before," said Ruping's husband with a smile. "I just said it unintentionally.".
In this way, Ruping and her husband quarreled endlessly all night.
"What are you crazy about?" Her husband's words humiliated Ruping's heart. She didn't expect to be teased by her husband the first time she took the initiative. If her husband had said, "Honey, how charming you are tonight," maybe the couple wouldn't have made the wedding anniversary night so messy.
According to expert analysis, in couples' lives, some men prefer to use sarcasm to regulate the atmosphere, but women are inherently sensitive, especially to the tone and gaze of men's ridicule, which makes them feel very uncomfortable. Therefore, men should be careful not to "sneer" at each other in inappropriate situations, otherwise, you will turn your unintentional sneer into a "war" in bed.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)