Post Date December, 02 2023
With the rapid development of the times and the increasingly fierce competition in work, many young people ruthlessly consume their physical and mental health and other leisure time in order to achieve their career and life goals, and even beautiful events such as romance are left behind by them. When they reach the age of 30, many unmarried men look at the others around them, and even their children are in elementary school. It is only then that they begin to value their love and marriage under the urging of their parents and friends. So, what is the love psychology of a 30-year-old man? Here are some suggestions.
1、 What may not necessarily persist to the end is victory
Chasing a girl is not particularly difficult, and if you think you're chasing the wrong person, it's probably because you're chasing the wrong person. If you put in a lot of effort to catch up with a girl, it's better to put in a lot of effort but not catch up because it's so difficult to have a girlfriend. That is to say, your love has been unequal from the beginning. The reason why she hesitates and refuses to agree to you is because her innate consciousness is that you are not worthy of her and may not necessarily persist in achieving a happy love and marriage.
2、 Not necessarily hanging from a tree
A 30 year old man's love psychology also requires adjusting his mindset. We always cherish our first love very much, and we once swore to her that in this life and this life, I will only love you and never say anything about her. We always think this way. What we thought was right at the beginning, but time will dilute everything, including all the emotions, family, and friendships in the world. When reality comes, when she first doesn't love you, will you continue to stubbornly like her? Do you still have to persist or even wait for her divorce before marrying you? Don't walk on a tree until it withers. You still have many choices. It's someone else who hurt you first, why do you still get slapped for her? Ask yourself if this is right for raising your parents, and what have they gained from their son?
3、 Not necessarily pasted together every day
You may think this is a clich é, but not every man knows the importance of this. If you want to win a woman's heart, you should be attentive and always care for her. It is very right to be considerate and considerate of her. But you just can't be with her all the time. Everyone needs a certain amount of private space, even if you are husband and wife. Men always like to be eager to get spiritual pleasure with women, and women are always willing to leave men to observe their charm from a distance, so that life can add color, rather than being trapped in blankets all day. So men need to understand this, it's not easy to not only understand but also achieve it. It's still not wrong to think about it.
In short, the love psychology of a 30 year old man is complex and diverse. No matter what kind of love and marriage views you have, only by correctly understanding yourself, understanding life, and treating love and marriage with a positive and healthy attitude can you have a truly healthy and happy life. In addition, if there are certain psychological problems that cannot be solved by oneself during the process of love or marriage, you may want to confide in your family and friends and ask them to help you overcome your psychological troubles.
