Of course, not all men are "swindlers". The world is peaceful and life is beautiful, but this does not guarantee that men who cheat under the banner of love will not come to them. It's not how smart men are. If women believe in intuition, they can't see through the poor acting skills of men.
Type 1 - Pseudo Detail
There are a lot of such men. They seem to be very manly. They say they are single, have no girlfriend, have no wife, and love you at first sight. Even if you accidentally find out that he has a lovely wife in his family, he will say that it is "my sister". As long as you do not catch the current one, you will not admit it.
He has a pregnant fiancee
Teller: A Zhen
That day, Feng walked up to me and casually threw a meal card in front of me and said, "Beauty, you are thin enough. It is me who should lose weight.". My heart was immediately moved by his "righteous act". So we began to fall in love, but somehow, all my colleagues around me often looked at me with strange eyes.
Just when we were close to each other, a strange woman found me. It turned out that she was Feng's girlfriend for three years. She looked at me with critical eyes, and then said, "Feng would like you, a woman who is not beautiful, has no body, and has no money!"! I was irritated and sneered at her for everything except being young. Unexpectedly, she smiled: Young is not young, Feng is destined to marry me, don't you know? We are getting married. I am pregnant with his baby.
This was like a bolt from the blue. I was shocked and immediately questioned Feng. He stammered and explained that he was sorry for me and didn't want to cheat me, but thought I was too good, so he couldn't help falling in love with me
Recalling the insightful and strange eyes of my colleagues, I regret that I was fooled by a bad liar
The Love Myth of Golden Boy and Jade Girl
Teller: Mai Zi
From the first time I saw him, I felt like calling. Such a handsome guy is rare. Of course, a beautiful girl like me is not easy to meet. So after several phone calls, we became friends. He seemed to be telepathic with me and solemnly asked me to be his girlfriend. I almost immediately pretended to agree with him half way. I won't refuse anything I like. That night, I gave myself to him.
While I was complacent about my feelings and thought that we were the golden children of the last generation, a friend of his inadvertently revealed a terrible secret to me. "Ah Jing and his girlfriend have been together for more than three years. It's time to get married." I just woke up.
Yes, a handsome man in his thirties, successful in his career and humorous in his talk, why do you want to be a golden bachelor? Even if he is not married, his girlfriend must be there. Why should he keep his life as a jade in order to meet me with the same beauty? But I was careless enough to ignore some of his habits, such as always shutting down the phone and going to bed on time before 11 o'clock, for example, always saying that it is a low-level mistake to work overtime and busy holidays. Is it because I am too confident about my own conditions?
Comments: In fact, it is best to test this kind of fake single swindler. If you can't find out whether he has a family from his own population, you can also find out from the people around him. If he is unlucky to be false single, and you are unlucky to be cheated, it may be because you are too vain in addition to indicating that you are too easy to cheat.
Type 2 - network swindler
Nowadays, online dating is nothing new, but the success stories of online swindlers have become commonplace. Of course, you don't know how many chat windows he opened at the back of the screen at the same time, nor do you know that all the sweet words he said to you were answered by shortcut keys. Regardless of the process, in addition to "color", his ultimate goal is to use you as an ATM. Have you seen "Auntie's Postmodern Life"? There are too many "little white faces" in life.
Prince Charming turned out to be a charlatan
Teller: Miao Miao
In fact, I didn't believe that online dating could bring me any good men, but since a sister married abroad through online dating, I also began to try online dating. Half a year ago, I met a man named Qin Yue through dating website. He said that he was a Singaporean, working in the Singapore Embassy in Shanghai, and a diplomat. At the beginning, I didn't believe it, so he took the trouble to send me local photos and video with me in his "office", which made me think this man could not be fake.
In order to confirm his identity, I proposed to meet him. Unexpectedly, he readily agreed. Just after the Spring Festival, he flew to Nanning to see me. As soon as I saw him, I felt that he was even more handsome than the video, so we had a relationship. I thought that the diplomat's wife had made up my mind. Unexpectedly, the problem came after he returned to Singapore.
One day, he suddenly said that there was an accident at home and his account was frozen, so he wanted to borrow money from me. I realized that there was something strange, so I called him at the number of his home. Unexpectedly, it was just an empty number. After I questioned him on MSN, his avatar never shone again. Only then did I realize that I was cheated!
He disappeared. I owe a lot of money
Teller: Abu
I met him online, and we chatted very well. The procedure we wrote was to meet, just like many online lovers. Because he looked very honest, I slowly put down my guard. In addition, he was considerate and obedient to me, so I accepted him as my boyfriend. Unexpectedly, three months later, he told me that he would go to a very remote place to practice and come back once a week. In the next month, we would meet once a week. During that time, he called me and said he had lost his wallet. He asked me for hundreds. I agreed with disapproval. Since then, every time I met, he needed money and asked me to send it to him.
Unexpectedly, a year later, he suddenly disappeared. I panicked. The money he borrowed from me totaled more than 10000 yuan. Like him, I was a student. I didn't have that much money to lend to him. I went to ask people I knew. As a result, he disappeared, and I also owe this debt. I wanted to call the police, but I knew nothing about him and had no evidence. This is really depressing.
Comments: Online swindlers basically cheat money or sex. Their excuse for swindling money is basically that there is something wrong with the project. With all the fixed assets, the account has been frozen, and even a dozen people can't take out your money for a while. You have to be careful when you hear this. As for the means of cheating, unless you are really stupid enough to sacrifice yourself, please follow the following principles: First, don't meet alone. Second, we should not meet where there are few people. To meet, go to KFC McDonald's. Drink your own drinks and don't leave your own food.
Type 3 - Married male
If a married man next to you intentionally or unintentionally confides in your face about his marriage misfortune, his wife is a tigress, and he has no feelings with his wife... please be careful, this married swindler man is playing your wrong idea. Unless you want to be a third party, you must definitely show that you have no interest in married men. The common characteristics of married swindler men are "thick-skinned" and "bold". If you act equivocal because of your face, he will pester you like a fly.
I have become a captive
Teller: VIVIAN
He was my teacher, and I changed from adoration to liking him. At that time, I only felt that the teacher was young and promising, and I didn't know that he had a wife. Later, there were many rumors among the students that I was "kept" by him, and I suddenly realized that he had a wife. Sadly, I asked him directly whether he was married. After a long silence, he said that he and his wife had a bad relationship. At present, he lives in two places and is unwilling to talk about these issues with me.
There is no airtight wall in the world. Our affairs were soon discovered by his wife. Her wife called me and advised me to give up on him. I quarreled with him again for this in a rage. He said helplessly that he had proposed to divorce his wife, but his wife did not agree. She wanted to make trouble, and he could do nothing
I'm a depressed third party
Teller: Mingming
I have admired him since I met him. For me, he is a very attractive man. I know that he is married and has a daughter, but he said that he is very unhappy. If it was not for having children, he would definitely not marry his wife. At first, he wanted to make a living, but since he met me, he felt that every time he returned home was a pain.
I looked at the unhappy man in front of me and looked at his sincere eyes when he said these words to me. I only sympathized with him, so I naturally became a third party. Sometimes when I think of his wife and daughter, I feel guilty, but soon this guilt will be replaced by selfish feelings. I think it is because he is unhappy that he needs to find me. Why can't an unhappy man find happiness?
I can only meet him once a week. This kind of life is oppressive. I can't see the light like a mouse when I watch other lovers live in a fair and aboveboard way. I think it's ridiculous. I really don't know whether it's worth paying for him like this.
Comment: What is love? Can only be a third party to have love? Don't be silly. Do you think that a man will only tell you that he and his wife are unhappy? Maybe he will say this to countless women countless times, but you may be the only one who takes the bait. He is enjoying the warmth of his family while enjoying the spirit and body you have paid for free. Is there anything more pleasant than that? Do you think he can abandon everything for you? Do you believe that he is willing to follow you for a new time at a great age? In fact, it is not he who deceives you, but you who deceive yourself.