Post Date December, 02 2023
When interacting with people, it is always inseparable from the word "upbringing". How a person's upbringing is fully indicative of how their parents are, and how their parents are perceived by their upbringing. Therefore, if a man wants to win the favor of women, he must fully demonstrate his upbringing in front of them, and the reason why many women have a crush on this man and are willing to socialize with him, I believe that the upbringing in this is also a part of the reason that attracts her. No one wants to be with an uneducated man, right? What upbringing should a man have to attract a woman's attention?
1. Maintain a low profile and low-key communication
Start with a friend, but don't let her know "you want to chase her" from the beginning! If you don't pursue her, she won't have the opportunity to refuse you, so you can have the opportunity to approach her and give her the opportunity to understand you. This is not just about saying, but also about keeping words and deeds consistent. Without saying it verbally, many losers' behaviors can also reveal your intentions. Be careful. This can reduce the psychological pressure of girls, so that you can smoothly communicate. Don't fantasize about being allowed to marry you after three days of familiarity. Be fully communicative and understand that emotions do not arise out of thin air.
2. Show sincerity, don't be hypocritical
It is not excessive to appropriately display one's talents in front of the girl you love, but when dealing with two people, the most taboo is hypocrisy. "The other party is not a fool, so don't play her like a monkey or entertain yourself, otherwise it will backfire and even become a friend.". Therefore, in front of the other party, it is necessary to show sincerity, not hypocrisy, never.
3. Generous demeanor, Zhang Xianboyish spirit
According to the statistics of emotional experts, the most hated characteristics of men among women are stinginess and obscenity. If you really want to please a girl, you need to know how to occasionally give and buy small gifts, or invite the other person to dinner, watch movies, and other normal expenses. In the process of consumption, it is also important not to show an expression of love for money, but to show generosity. Zhang Xian's boy is responsible for paying for the girl's bill.
4. Find common ground with each other
Isn't there a saying that "birds of a feather flock together"? Generally speaking, people with the same interests, hobbies, perspectives, personalities, and backgrounds are more likely to come together later. So many love masters are always looking for clues that can reveal a girl's background and interests.
5. Listen to her
Girls have more emotions when compared to boys, which also leads to a greater need for boys to talk than boys. In the process of communication, when one party is speaking, you maintain concentration and patiently listen to others' words, which is also a manifestation of cultivation. So when girls are happy to talk about things that interest them, what you need to do is listen patiently and respond. In this way, she will connect you with a good mood.
6. The focus of a conversation is not on yourself, but on the other person
When many boys chat, it's easy to start chatting about themselves and then say how hard they work and how excellent they are. On a date, the focus of the conversation should be on the other person's interests, not yours. You can share some of your own experiences and life, but it should be more about each other. "But talking to someone doesn't mean you're constantly talking to them. It's a date, not an interrogation.". So you should also join your own experiences and life from time to time to let the other person slowly relax.
7. Verbal communication
Don't worry if you're not around her. You can also make her worry about you. Wind up a flirting message or send an email to his work email to tell him how much you miss him.
8. When reserved, you need to take the initiative
You can actively express your admiration. Sometimes girls are more passive because of their shyness or reserved personality. As a boy, you should take the initiative. Whether it's an invitation to a date, dominance during a date, or emotional expression, you can take the initiative to express and act. This can also promote the progress of development between you.
9. Create laughter
Love and laughter always go hand in hand. Among the factors traditionally believed to generate affection between men and women, a sense of humor always occupies a very important position. Sharing laughter creates a sense of closeness between strangers. In a very classic experiment, they asked two strangers who didn't know each other to engage in some game like activities, such as learning to dance. During this period, they blindfolded one side and let the other side hold a straw (to prevent them from speaking freely). Although the sounds made by these two people seem a bit silly, it turns out that love does appear with laughter.
Summary: The above is enough to show how a man's upbringing is, so I hope that male friends can enlighten you after reading it. Nowadays, women attach great importance to upbringing. For example, if you are pursuing a woman or have been in love, but you are very stingy. Every time you go out to play and eat, you will implement an AA system or let a woman pay for it, "A woman won't say anything twice at a time. If she says it more often, I believe she will see how your personality has changed. Even dating doesn't save money to make a woman happy. You can imagine what the future will be like.".
