If marriage is compared to a glass of sake, neither hot nor cold is the best. Cold, drinking hurts; I burned it and hurt my mouth when I drank it. The optimal temperature is 37 degrees, which is closest to the human body temperature and just right. And between couples, the best 37 degrees should also be maintained, which can make the relationship more lasting.
High temperature
The ideal marriage temperature is often intense and boiling. Just as the song "Let us be companions in the world of mortals, sharing the prosperity of the world with grandeur" sings. However, if a marriage is exposed to a scorching heat for a long time, it is inevitable that it will suffer from a "fever" attack, burning both oneself and the other party. If a couple holds their own opinions and refuses to obey each other in marriage, they will inevitably argue, naturally speaking loudly and difficult to communicate. Even if they apologize afterwards, the scar will still exist and will not disappear.
Furthermore, if the wife regards her husband as her "private property" after marriage, sticking to her every day, like the GPS implanted by the police in criminals, keeping the marriage in a hot state at all times, the marriage will sooner or later sound an alarm. So, to avoid a "fire", lower the temperature appropriately.
Low temperature
Everything has its own ups and downs, and marriage is the same. With high temperatures, there will naturally be low temperatures. If the temperature in a marriage drops to freezing point, then the couple in the marriage will naturally be like Iran and Iraq, constantly fighting and unable to reconcile. Over time, the grudges in their hearts will deepen until the final "meeting like ice". Sorrow is never greater than death of heart. Couples always avoid the obstacles in marriage, which can only make each other's marriage more painful. When one day they suddenly repent and then adjust their marriage, it is not possible without great effort.
So, in order to achieve a perfect marriage temperature, it is necessary to communicate more, understand the other party's thoughts, and make corresponding improvements, rather than engaging in personal attacks. If your husband has not been gentle with you for a long time, playing coquettish will not drop a piece of meat, which avoids embarrassment and war, and can also warm up the relationship between each other. At the same time, your husband will increase his love for you because of your coquettish behavior, why not do it?
37 degrees
A temperature that is neither strong nor weak is the best temperature for marriage. Marriage is spent in tolerance and being accepted, so giving each other some space appropriately allows each other to have moments to lower their temperature. When a couple is too sweet, it is important to learn to turn the tide. When a couple's relationship is too cold, it is understandable to learn to be a bit bored. It is normal to understand how much love is bored.
The wife encourages her husband to go out and gather with friends. The husband can help her wash the dishes, wipe the floor, and show her love in her heart. This is the only way to be happy and most helpful for marriage. So, no 42 degrees, no 15 degrees, 37 degrees is just right.
In marriage, it is important to grasp the optimal temperature, which is 37 degrees Celsius, in order to make the relationship between the couple longer and the marriage more stable.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)