Post Date December, 03 2023
Sometimes the distance between success and failure is not vastly different. Sometimes a small decision can affect the outcome. For successful men, the risk of failure is always present, and sometimes psychological pressure can bring motivation. However, sometimes increasing psychological pressure can easily crush a so-called successful man. Regardless of their appearance, successful men also have psychological pressure!
A foreign study has confirmed that the main causes of health problems in successful men are stress, stress, and loneliness. The time when men die from a heart attack or suicide is usually around 9am on Monday, which is the moment when they face the tension, depression, and loneliness of another week of life after experiencing a weekend of loneliness.
So, how should successful men improve their mental health and get rid of "heart" fatigue as soon as possible?
First of all, "successful" men need to have a comprehensive understanding of themselves, and design their own life goals based on specific conditions such as their personality characteristics, abilities, physical strength, and environment. The best mental health strategy is not to be critical of yourself and not to set too high expectations for yourself.
Secondly, the psychological reason for feeling very tired is that every day, I force myself to achieve a certain kind of beautiful vision, love to compare with others, and every day, I inflate my own desire, taking the results of others' behavior as my goal, leading to a psychological complex of greed, which psychologically produces a sense of famine that "no hero is not a hero until I reach the Great Wall," hunger for status, desire for money, persistence in false self-esteem The endless desire for pleasure, etc., causes complete unhappiness in oneself, and always feels very tired and tired in life. The "good medicine" for its treatment is to develop one's potential with a pragmatic attitude, not to pay too much attention to the applause and praise of others, and to experience the meaning and joy of life itself while constantly expanding one's own psychological space.
Third, communicate more with others. Communicating with others and having heart-to-heart conversations can not only establish close relationships, establish friendships, and experience the joy of communication, but also be a process of mutual learning. Burying all your depression in the bottom of your heart will only make you unhappy. If you tell your inner troubles to your close friends or teachers, your mood will suddenly feel better. Treating external changes with an open and open-minded attitude is conducive to maintaining a young, happy, and energetic heart.
Fourth, have your own time and space. For successful men, the internal and external boundaries of 8 hours are often unclear. Overtime beyond 8 hours is a common occurrence, and there is a lot of work to be done at home. Therefore, how to handle work and rest well is also a requirement for mental health. Proper participation in recreational activities is a good way to eliminate psychological stress.
Fifth, appreciate yourself. To be psychologically healthy and balanced, one must accept oneself, appreciate oneself, like oneself, and accept one's strengths and weaknesses. Some successful men, in pursuit of perfection, always pick on their own shortcomings and shortcomings. Although this is conducive to progress, it will make them live too tired. Only by appreciating oneself can one have confidence and develop oneself better.
Sixth, adjust your psychology and learn to seek help. If you have physical or mental problems, you should seek help from the hospital and psychological consultation room in a timely manner.
Mental health problems are different from physical diseases, and they are often difficult to detect. However, even if they are detected, they may not be taken seriously by patients. In fact, the severity of psychological problems has been verified by many news reports, and serious consequences such as suicide can be incalculable, which men must not ignore.
