If you love a person, you should let him easily take off his disguise and face his true self without being ashamed. Let him know that your love contains everything. George Weinberg, a British psychologist, believes that men have been taught from childhood to be strong, not to shed tears, to protect women, and not even to miss the colorful candy in the corner candy store. Therefore, they have to disguise themselves according to the requirements of the society since childhood
No matter how much a man loves you, women should also pay attention to the following behaviors!
1、 When men are sarcastic and sarcastic by women
For example, "Without me, there would be no today for you!" In such words, love is first of all a kind of respect. If you don't respect him, how can you cherish him? If your pay is derived from willing love, then you are not in the mood to care about gains and losses; If you have begun to care about your own efforts, it means that your love is not enough. At this time, it is OK to calculate, but it is OK to know. You can never claim debt in a straight and straight way, which will only accelerate the evaporation of your already precarious love.
2、 When women think their men are insecure
Women always hope that their men can give them a sense of security, but what is "security"? Can you stand out when you are bullied? Or when you are angry outside, spread all your resentment on me and become your "vent"? Women just need to listen, love and attention, but men also need to understand and be recognized. So women should not always think that their men have no sense of security. What you want is nothing more than that responsibility, that commitment, that love?
3、 When a man is suspected by his own woman
Marriage is about honesty and responsibility. Once a woman begins to doubt her man, the man will be very painful, even difficult to argue. For example, "Who sent this message?" The couple should not be suspicious of each other. If it is like this every day, it will be very difficult for them. Ma still said, "Don't look at each other's mobile phone easily. If you don't see what should not be seen, you are not happy. If you don't see what should not be seen, he is not happy!" Once the man is suspected by his own woman, the man is very painful. I hope that female friends should introspect.
4、 Men's sexual ability is denied by women
Negating a man's sexual ability is the biggest insult to him, especially the simple and brutal denial. Even if you don't want to ignite yourself to flatter him, you can also let your desire rise slowly. Even if you really don't want to force yourself, you can find a reason not to be abused. A categorical refusal will not only affect his mood for a while, but also affect his sexual function.
5、 The woman asked, "Who do you love more, me and * * *?"
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an important part of whether marriage can be harmonious. If you love each other, you can think for each other, not only you and him, but also your mother-in-law. Love is mutual. Only when you love and trust her can this emotion be fed back to you. Therefore, if you treat your mother-in-law as a lover rather than a rival, you won't ask such questions.
6、 Women deny men's development prospects
When two people come together, they need to build a happy family. Since the choice of holding hands requires mutual support and trust, when a woman believes that her man has no future development, the man will lose the motivation to fight for it and break the can. So a man needs to be encouraged by his lover. Such warmth will stimulate his potential. Don't easily deny your man. Be sure to believe that your man is the best and the best.