Post Date December, 02 2023
Holding the belief that 'one day your name will appear in my household registration book', 'I waited for your concern, but I closed my heart', and finally came to this conclusion: 'I planted a pile of boyfriends in spring, and now autumn has arrived, tut tut, surprisingly, there is no harvest.'; So "it is inevitable to blame the hands of time and write love as having loved each other before"; The biggest sorrow in life is that youth is not here, but acne is still there; What remains is only memories, and "memories are a bridge, but a prison leading to loneliness"... The higher the standard, the harder it is to pick, and the higher the vision, the harder it is to find. According to the principle of men looking down and women looking up in search of love, the woman in the highest position and the man in the lowest position, the former being a broad angle of love that is bearish, and the latter being a blind angle of love that is lost, both become difficult to get married. This is what Romanian female writer Bibesco said: "Free love is sometimes true, but never free." Falling in love due to ambiguity and breaking up due to understanding are common phenomena. In the past, people's choices were limited in scope, and they listened to their parents' orders to make matchmakers and got married before they knew the root of the matter; Before getting married, modern people start to rub shoulders and talk to each other. Over time, it becomes apparent how smelly their feet are, how loud their snoring is, how bad their habits are, and how busy their minds are. The remaining emotions are no longer able to drive the two towards the palace of marriage. Therefore, French writer Chamfort said, "Love is more delightful than marriage, because fictional stories are more enjoyable than historical facts." Chinese netizens said, "The rear wheel falls in love with the front wheel, because it can never be with it, so it kisses every inch of the land it rolls over." Modern men and women know the opposite sex more and have a wide range of experiences. Seeing so many people constantly changing, they have lost confidence in marriage, Thus, love is regarded as a pastime and marriage as an adventure. At the same time, men focus on the happiness of the lower body, while women care about the happiness of the second half of their lives; Women dare not easily entrust men for life, resulting in a more common phenomenon of "leftover women". There must be "leftover women" and "leftover men", but why is the topic of "leftover women" so eye-catching, while the existence of leftover men seems so bleak? The obvious reason is that "leftover women" are mostly eye-catching for high-end white-collar workers, while "leftover men" are mostly overlooked for bottom tier blue-collar workers. It can be imagined that there are many "leftover women" in Shanghai because there are many "victorious women"; Is it because Guangzhou has too many "leftover women"? It is said that one should keep their eyes wide open before marriage, and one eye open and one eye closed after marriage. However, if the eyes are too wide, it is difficult for the opposite sex to enter the "legal eye". Therefore, whether they are too competitive or too realistic, they are all obstacles to marriage and the embryos of "leftover women". It doesn't matter how you call it a 'leftover girl' or a 'saint girl' or a 'victorious girl', what matters is your own feelings. In terms of marriage, some people have only the form left, while others excel in the essence. However, when you make up your mind to get married, don't nitpick and take action when it's time to do so. Otherwise, hesitation can bring melancholy, as Shakespeare often said: "Love that comes too late is like a pardon sent after the execution of the death penalty. No matter how regretful it is, it cannot be redeemed 25 to 27 years old are "junior leftover customers", and these people still have the courage to continue to struggle for a partner, so they are called "leftover fighters". 2. 28 to 30 years old are "intermediate leftover customers", and at this time, their opportunities are limited, and they have no time to search for them due to their careers. 3. 31 to 35 years old are senior leftover customers, who survive the cruel workplace struggle, remain single, and are revered as "leftover Buddha in battle". 4 35 years old and above are considered "super leftover customers", and should be honored as "Qitian Dayu".
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”Falling in love due to ambiguity and breaking up due to understanding is a common phenomenon. In the past, people's choices were limited in scope, and they listened to their parents' orders to make matchmakers and got married before they knew the root of the matter; Before getting married, modern people start to rub shoulders and talk to each other. Over time, it becomes apparent how smelly their feet are, how loud their snoring is, how bad their habits are, and how busy their minds are. The remaining emotions are no longer able to drive the two towards the palace of marriage. Therefore, French writer Chamfort said, "Love is more delightful than marriage, because fictional stories are more enjoyable than historical facts." Chinese netizens said, "The rear wheel falls in love with the front wheel, because it can never be with it, so it kisses every inch of the land it rolls over." Modern men and women know the opposite sex more and have a wide range of experiences. Seeing so many people constantly changing, they have lost confidence in marriage, Thus, love is regarded as a pastime and marriage as an adventure. At the same time, men focus on the happiness of the lower body, while women care about the happiness of the second half of their lives; Women dare not easily entrust men for life, resulting in a more common phenomenon of "leftover women". There must be "leftover women" and "leftover men", but why is the topic of "leftover women" so eye-catching, while the existence of leftover men seems so bleak? The obvious reason is that "leftover women" are mostly eye-catching for high-end white-collar workers, while "leftover men" are mostly overlooked for bottom tier blue-collar workers. It can be imagined that there are many "leftover women" in Shanghai because there are many "victorious women"; Is it because Guangzhou has too many "leftover women"? It is said that one should keep their eyes wide open before marriage, and one eye open and one eye closed after marriage. However, if the eyes are too wide, it is difficult for the opposite sex to enter the "legal eye". Therefore, whether they are too competitive or too realistic, they are all obstacles to marriage and the embryos of "leftover women". It doesn't matter how you call it a 'leftover girl' or a 'saint girl' or a 'victorious girl', what matters is your own feelings. In terms of marriage, some people have only the form left, while others excel in the essence. However, when you make up your mind to get married, don't nitpick and take action when it's time to do so. Otherwise, hesitation can bring melancholy, as Shakespeare often said: "Love that comes too late is like a pardon sent after the execution of the death penalty. No matter how regretful it is, it cannot be redeemed 25 to 27 years old are "junior leftover customers", and these people still have the courage to continue to struggle for a partner, so they are called "leftover fighters". 2. 28 to 30 years old are "intermediate leftover customers", and at this time, their opportunities are limited, and they have no time to search for them due to their careers. 3. 31 to 35 years old are senior leftover customers, who survive the cruel workplace struggle, remain single, and are revered as "leftover Buddha in battle". 4 35 years old and above are considered "super leftover customers", and should be honored as "Qitian Dayu".
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”Modern men and women know more about the opposite sex and have a wide range of experiences. Seeing so many people moving from time to time, they have lost confidence in marriage and view love as a pastime and marriage as an adventure. At the same time, men focus on the happiness of the lower body, while women care about the happiness of the second half of their lives; Women dare not easily entrust men for life, resulting in a more common phenomenon of "leftover women". There must be "leftover women" and "leftover men", but why is the topic of "leftover women" so eye-catching, while the existence of leftover men seems so bleak? The obvious reason is that "leftover women" are mostly eye-catching for high-end white-collar workers, while "leftover men" are mostly overlooked for bottom tier blue-collar workers. It can be imagined that there are many "leftover women" in Shanghai because there are many "victorious women"; Is it because Guangzhou has too many "leftover women"? It is said that one should keep their eyes wide open before marriage, and one eye open and one eye closed after marriage. However, if the eyes are too wide, it is difficult for the opposite sex to enter the "legal eye". Therefore, whether they are too competitive or too realistic, they are all obstacles to marriage and the embryos of "leftover women". It doesn't matter how you call it a 'leftover girl' or a 'saint girl' or a 'victorious girl', what matters is your own feelings. In terms of marriage, some people have only the form left, while others excel in the essence. However, when you make up your mind to get married, don't nitpick and take action when it's time to do so. Otherwise, hesitation can bring melancholy, as Shakespeare often said: "Love that comes too late is like a pardon sent after the execution of the death penalty. No matter how regretful it is, it cannot be redeemed 25 to 27 years old are "junior leftover customers", and these people still have the courage to continue to struggle for a partner, so they are called "leftover fighters". 2. 28 to 30 years old are "intermediate leftover customers", and at this time, their opportunities are limited, and they have no time to search for them due to their careers. 3. 31 to 35 years old are senior leftover customers, who survive the cruel workplace struggle, remain single, and are revered as "leftover Buddha in battle". 4 35 years old and above are considered "super leftover customers", and should be honored as "Qitian Dayu".
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It can be imagined that there are many "leftover women" in Shanghai because there are many "victorious women"; Is it because Guangzhou has too many "leftover women"? It is said that one should keep their eyes wide open before marriage, and one eye open and one eye closed after marriage. However, if the eyes are too wide, it is difficult for the opposite sex to enter the "legal eye". Therefore, whether they are too competitive or too realistic, they are all obstacles to marriage and the embryos of "leftover women". It doesn't matter how you call it a 'leftover girl' or a 'saint girl' or a 'victorious girl', what matters is your own feelings. In terms of marriage, some people have only the form left, while others excel in the essence. However, when you make up your mind to get married, don't nitpick and take action when it's time to do so. Otherwise, hesitation can bring melancholy, as Shakespeare often said: "Love that comes too late is like a pardon sent after the execution of the death penalty. No matter how regretful it is, it cannot be redeemed 25 to 27 years old are "junior leftover customers", and these people still have the courage to continue to struggle for a partner, so they are called "leftover fighters". 2. 28 to 30 years old are "intermediate leftover customers", and at this time, their opportunities are limited, and they have no time to search for them due to their careers. 3. 31 to 35 years old are senior leftover customers, who survive the cruel workplace struggle, remain single, and are revered as "leftover Buddha in battle". 4 35 years old and above are considered "super leftover customers", and should be honored as "Qitian Dayu".
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”The internet mocks "leftover women" at four levels: 1. Those aged 25 to 27 are "junior leftover customers" who still have the courage to continue fighting for a partner, so they are called "leftover warriors". 2. Those aged 28 to 30 are "intermediate leftover customers". At this time, their opportunities are limited and they have no time to search for them due to their careers. 3. Those aged 31 to 35 are senior leftover customers who have survived the brutal workplace struggle and are still single, Respected as the "Duzhan Remaining Buddha", aged 35 and above as the "Super Remaining Guest", and revered as the "Qi Tian Da Remaining".
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