Post Date December, 03 2023
Marriage is a festive event. When the new couple is getting married, the relatives and friends around will say some words of blessing to the new people, such as a good marriage for a hundred years, a permanent tie, a long life together, and so on. However, these words are easier to say than to do. In the long marriage life, who can guarantee that there is no contradiction between them? No one can guarantee. So, how should the couple maintain their feelings? Let's invite emotional experts to give us some opinions today.
Always express love to each other
Chinese people tend to be more implicit and are not good at putting love on the top. They feel that it is unnecessary to put love on the top every day. However, it is wrong. Love needs to be expressed. Couples, especially middle-aged couples, often express their love to their spouses in various ways, so that the other party knows that you still love him (her) no matter where you are. Don't hide your love in your heart and keep it quiet.
Care for each other
Now, both husband and wife have their own jobs and are struggling ceaselessly every day. Therefore, when they return home, they want to be cared by each other. A warm word and a thoughtful action will make the other party feel warm and comforted. Moreover, both husband and wife should not think that only the other party should do housework, but should be considerate of each other and express their gratitude.
Compensate for previous regrets
In reality. Many husbands did not give each other the most ideal form of marriage because of the restriction of objective conditions, such as not selling wedding rings or wearing wedding gowns. If conditions permit now, remember to make up for the regrets of those years as much as possible. This will make the other party feel that you are a very affectionate and affectionate person, and the love for you will be doubled. For example, many gay men buy gold jewelry for their lovers after marriage, and many couples who have passed the age of 30 take wedding color photos.
Frank communication
Both husband and wife should share weal and woe. In the relationship between two people, we should always communicate with each other in terms of emotions, thoughts and other aspects, and share our feelings and sorrows with each other, so as to share happiness and sorrow. Alleviating conflicts is the key for couples to stay together for a long time, and conflicts are inevitable. The important thing is how to solve them rationally. When encountering conflicts, be patient, avoid quarreling with hurtful words, let alone fighting.
(Intern editor: Lai Jiaxing)
