I was stunned when the wife of a strong woman was promoted and given a raise to entertain colleagues for dinner, while the male supervisor was drunk

My wife and I have been married for five years, and in my heart, she has always been a strong woman. After marriage, we rarely grind our mouths about trivial things in life. Everyone is busy with work and has no time to argue over trivial matters. Both of them worked very hard and the living conditions at home were quite good. After a year of marriage, we changed to a big house and bought a new car.

Although the man is ambitious and after having a family, I also want to pursue some comfortable and romantic life, such as traveling with his wife, watching movies, and so on, my wife doesn't think so. She always says that when he is young, he only wants to eat, drink, and play, but when he is old, he is too late to strive. Others praise me for having a wife who can make money and has ideals, but facing such a wife who pursues her dreams, my emotions are complex.

Five years have passed, and we haven't had any children. My parents are urging me not to go home. Every time I ask for a child, my wife always scolds me and says, 'How can I cultivate my child into a talent and provide her with a high-quality life without earning enough money?'. Her words left me speechless. She doesn't understand life, and our philosophy of life is gradually not on the same channel. She only wants to make money.

That day, while I was still at work, she excitedly called me and told me that she had been promoted. I congratulated her on my lips, but there was no feeling in my heart. The greater her desire for official positions, the farther the distance between us became. Afterwards, she asked me to go home early to buy some groceries and invite my leaders and colleagues to dinner at home in the evening. I am very unwilling, but I don't want to spoil her interest, so I have to obey.

I finished work at five o'clock and drove to the vegetable market. It took me almost an hour to get home, busy and busy. When I got home, my wife and his colleagues had already arrived at the door. I was carrying a large and small bag and was praised by their colleagues as a good man. I glanced at my wife and she didn't respond. Her eyes told me that these were the things I should do. After entering the door, I started busy cooking, and my wife helped me.

At the dinner table, everyone enjoyed themselves and praised my craftsmanship. My wife was also happy, drinking red wine and constantly honoring his colleagues, but of course, she never let go of her leadership. After dinner, other colleagues continued to leave. The leader had drunk too much and fell asleep on our dining table. My wife was also drunk and lay dizzy on the sofa. I was the only one who was relatively sober and busy tidying up the mess. After I finished tidying up, my wife also woke up and helped his leader downstairs with me, asking me to take him home.

My wife was very familiar with the address of the leader, but I was surprised at the time, but didn't think much about it. I started the engine and drove to the address my wife mentioned. The car jolted and her leader woke up. Along the way, the man chattered incessantly, saying, 'I have been replying in droves, after all, I'm not familiar with him. Plus, he's drunk, so there's nothing to talk about.'. I quickly arrived at his house and helped him upstairs. The room was very clean. I helped him to the bed, and he suddenly sat up and pointed to the bed and sofa, saying, "This bed, this sofa, are all places for me and Xiaolin (my wife) to fight. You can marry this wife. The workplace is majestic, and the bed is not out of style!

I was stunned. What was he talking nonsense about? Why did he pull it onto the bed? I pulled him up and spoke clearly, he was already asleep... I drove back quickly to inquire with my wife. She looked at me with a guilty expression and didn't say anything. I was frantic, and she looked at me with an irrational expression, even more arrogant than me. "Yes, we're already in bed, so what? You can get a divorce if you want, but you still have a good life after I leave." I was dumbfounded, how did my wife become like this, completely unaware of the concept of home. So cold and heartless, will I still hold onto this marriage?

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

From the entire narrative, there is a significant difference between your wife and your ideal goals in life. She likes men who have achievements and achievements, which is her mentality as a strong woman. What you want is a virtuous wife who lives at home. Her pursuit of life is different, and she has lost her identity and committed infidelity.

It is understandable that the person who suffered the most in the entire matter is you. Faced with the current situation, if she doesn't give you an explanation and doesn't feel that she's wrong, even if you don't divorce, your future life will still be difficult. In her eyes, she is a cowardly and incompetent person. The matter has already come out, bravely accept it, communicate with two people, and give oneself a fair deal. I wish you happiness.