Post Date December, 02 2023
I have been married for five years and have always had a very good relationship with my wife. "We hardly ever blushed, and I remember nothing that could make us argue, even if we had different opinions, she always said, 'Okay, listen to you.'".
I feel very lucky to have such a supportive wife. It's funny. Perhaps this is also my negligence. My wife is so obedient that I didn't expect her to have a second heart towards me.
Last month, when I came back from a business trip and took out the garbage, I met a neighbor walking his dog in the neighborhood. We live on the 7th floor, and he lives on the 4th floor. He told me, have any relatives come to your family recently? "I was surprised, but I didn't. I asked him why he asked, and he said, 'Oh, a few days ago when you weren't there, there was a man who often ran to the 7th floor, and I met him several times while waiting for the elevator, so I asked.'.
"We are two households on one staircase, and there is no one living across the door. There is only one family on the seventh floor. I already feel something wrong in my heart. In front of outsiders, I still pretend that it may be my cousin.". Actually, where do I have any cousins? I always have to dispel my neighbors' conjectures first.
"I kept a secret and told my wife that I was going on a business trip for a week, leaving in the afternoon. As usual, she gently explained that I should pay attention to safety and not be too tired.". "I was distracted and sat at the coffee shop near the neighborhood until it was closed. Actually, I didn't know what the situation was, but I believed the neighbors wouldn't talk nonsense, but... I still wanted to trust my wife at that time.".
I waited until around 11:00 pm to slowly walk home. My heart was full of butterflies in my stomach, and I couldn't tell. I was going home now, hoping to see what I didn't want to see, and my heart was very confused. "When I got home, the door was actually open. I don't know what to think, so I didn't go in directly, so I unconsciously knocked on the door first.".
Almost at the same time, there was a sweet, tired voice from my wife inside the door: "The door is open, come in yourself.".
"I was completely stunned, and my wife was stunned when she saw me entering the door. We were all silent.". Teacher, she is waiting for someone other than me. After seeing me enter the door, she seems to have sent some messages on her mobile phone. When I thought about it, she had deleted all her communication records. I didn't ask about the following things, but I really don't know how to ask. She has been very careful these days and is very polite to me. What should I do, just pretend not to know? I can't swallow this puffy air.
Re:
The borer of marriage cannot swallow away the originally beautiful feelings in one day.
Which specific thing has chilled her heart, or whether her love for you from the beginning is disguised, requiring more details of your relationship to understand. "One party has already betrayed, and the fundamental nature of the relationship has been shaken. It is difficult for you to restore your trust in her to its original state.". "Now, you should have a good talk with her. She also knows that it's not a good thing to hide it. You hide it and let suspicion grow.". To begin with, simply put it bluntly: I want to know what happened that night.
If you give her the opportunity to express any dissatisfaction with you or the family, you can speak out openly this time. Also, let her understand that there is a need for mutual respect between two people. It is quite absurd to have ideas but not express them, blindly comply, but make mistakes in principles. "How to live in the future? You need to negotiate countermeasures. It must be harmony on the surface, not harmony on the surface.".
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
