My husband is a workaholic. Regardless of my life or death, I got angry and slept with someone else

I miss our impoverished couple when we first got married. In order to save money, he always had dinner at home and never spent money recklessly outside. He always eats well when I cook any food and is never picky. Of course, due to financial constraints, we may also grind our mouths and argue over small things in life, but those things do not affect our emotions at all.

After marriage, he worked very hard and his career developed smoothly. When he earns his first bucket of gold, he happily shares it with me, taking me to the mall to buy clothes, shoes, and cosmetics, saying he wants to dress me up beautifully and save himself face.

This kind of happy life did not last for a few years. He became increasingly focused on his career, earning more money and becoming more ambitious. I don't remember how long he didn't finish his meal at home, and I don't even know how long it was before he had sex with his wife. The most he said to me was, 'You can buy what you like yourself, I don't have time'.

We have been married for five years and haven't had any children. I am lonely and lonely, so I have a little dog. Every day, I take the dog for a walk alone. When I see someone else's husband and wife, paired up and carrying a baby, I secretly hate myself for marrying such an irresponsible husband. When I was alone, I had fun with the little dog. He lay quietly beside me, looking at me as if he was pitiful.

In the end, I couldn't resist being lonely and had an affair with a netizen. I had plenty of time for extramarital affairs because my husband didn't care about me, let alone my life. My lover is a robust man, and I can tell from his eyes that he really needs me, wants me, and I also need this kind of comfort.

We were together for about three months when my husband's sister discovered us. She followed me, investigated me, and caught me in bed on the spot. My husband couldn't save face and asked me for a divorce. It was my fault, I didn't defend it, and the property was distributed with him. The lover who needed me, afraid of causing trouble, withdrew early and disappeared without a trace. I have become a person again, ending my five year relationship and leaving that sad city

Reply from Weiqing Consultant:

Marriage requires management, and if one party does not cooperate, it is impossible to continue. Life requires financial support, but more importantly, spiritual support. Your husband has not been gentle with you for a long time, so you should communicate well with him to discuss the problems that have arisen between your husband and wife.

If you communicate in a timely manner, he is unwilling to spend the Spring Festival with you. You can protect your rights through the law, but long-term mental torture will only exhaust your energy, generate hatred towards him, and cause you to show signs of cheating.

Mistakes have already appeared. I hope you remember this lesson and think twice before taking action. Don't ruin your life just for the sake of speed. I wish you happiness.