My Husband Becomes Rich One Night, Unexpectedly Collaborates with the Post-90s Every Night

My husband and I started dating on the first day of the Chinese New Year in 2005. We got married in October 2008 and gave birth to my son in August 2009. In the Spring Festival of 2010, my husband won the lottery and became rich overnight. In February, he bought a 300000 car. In March, we bought a house and began to decorate it.

After the May Day holiday, I found that he always went out to chat with some car friends, had tea, and loved chatting with a girl. I asked him why he ignored me, and he said he understood. He would no longer argue with me in the future, and felt that it was meaningless. Marriage would be natural.

"I'm amazed, isn't it normal to argue in life? Why do you say that?".

Three days later, he filed for a divorce, and his husband went everywhere to tell fortunes and marriages. Two fortune tellers said that we were going to divorce this year. He voluntarily admitted to me that he had met a girl he liked, and he was ignored, but the more he ignored him, the more he wanted to separate from me.

In recent days, I found that the girl has started to accept him. He doesn't go home every day and is with that girl. The girl is a post-90s generation, 6 years younger than her husband, her parents divorced, and she has been living with her father. The husband said that she looks very pleasing. Said that the girl's father didn't care if he had married or had children, as long as he got divorced, he could be good to his daughter and wouldn't object to their being together.

"I was on a business trip for a week last week, and when I returned, he gave me a divorce agreement, which in some cases allowed me to divorce.". Sometimes they shout loudly and say that they have no feelings anymore, why drag him on? Sometimes they whisper to me for a divorce and let him pursue his own happiness.

Seeing my child under two years old, I don't know if I should save my marriage. "I am very disappointed with such a person, but the child is not wrong, and I don't know what to do.".

"I procrastinate in not getting divorced, but I feel very painful. If I get divorced, I can't bear to have my children so young and live in a broken family.". What should I do?

Interpretation:

As the saying goes, "When a man becomes rich, he becomes bad, and when a woman becomes bad, he becomes rich." This is not unreasonable. Your husband won the lottery and became rich overnight. He couldn't find the north in an instant. It can be seen how frivolous this person is, and wealth should not fall on such a person at all. "When you have money, you start spending it. Buying a car or a house is okay, but it's too bad to hook up with a little girl if you don't have any problems.". If it goes on like this, even the best days will come to an end. The ostentatious attitude of the poor and the inflated vanity of the rich have caused your husband to become obsessed.

Since he is so pretentious and high-profile in proposing a divorce, it is best to make him happy first. Otherwise, the family will not stop for a while, and the unexpected amount of money will also be lost to him. To be on the safe side, don't hesitate to agree with him first, but make sure to raise more conditions and divide more of his property to ensure the economic security of this family and yourself. Leave a way for yourself. After all, the child is still young. Maybe one day, your husband will have enough trouble, run out of money, and the little girl will kick him, so he will come back with his head down and beg you. At that time, you can punish him well and give him a chance if you are willing to. In this way, the initiative will be in your hands, and everything will be at your disposal.