Post Date December, 03 2023
Many people have a tragic heroic plot, where many men willingly become their own goddesses such as the spare tire, and many women willingly pay for all they have for a bad man. In this kind of
In a state of mind, in fact, they all obtain a sense of pleasure, the sense of reckless and courageous progress. The starting point for this pleasure comes from self-identity, which gives them a sense of happiness that they are moved to tears by kneeling on the ground.
A few days ago, a friend called me in the evening and chatted for over an hour. The general situation is that she likes a girl. He has known this girl for almost a year, and after waiting for a secret love affair for half a year, he took the initiative to express his love. The results were not bad or bad. The goddess would accompany him to dinner and movies, and he would accompany the goddess to go shopping and buy clothes.
"But the goddess just didn't give her a clear answer, which delayed for several months.". He couldn't bear this torture anymore, and put a lot of pressure on the goddess to get a clear result. The result is naturally that the goddess ignores him.
In deep sorrow, he dialed my phone. "He described to me that in the process of associating with the goddess, he bought breakfast every morning, sent midnight oil at night, sent gifts to repair things, called upon, waved away, refused to fight back, and scolded."
A counterbalance. "Because she gave up the opportunity to go abroad, transferred her job, even got married and bought a house, she had to write only her name on the property certificate.". But the goddess still gave up on him.
"I've seen the photos of this guy, and he's pretty handsome, at least he looks seven points.". The second generation of officials also have tens of millions of assets in their family. The conditions are not bad in every respect.
I asked him: "You like her, care about her, love her, and give her everything you have, including your self-esteem.". But she still doesn't accept you. Do you know why this is still the result?
He said he was suffering and confused. After explaining some solutions to him later, he hung up with peace of mind. But I know he will definitely not succeed because he won't do what I teach him.
In fact, seeing him reminds me of myself back then. Because I have also experienced this stage, I can understand his mood very well. Many people have a tragic heroic plot in which a man willingly waits for his goddess to be a spare tire, hoping to receive a chance from the goddess. There are also many women who are willing to give all they have for a bad man, expecting the prodigal son to turn around. In this state of mind, in fact, they all obtain a sense of pleasure, the sense of courage and reckless disregard for the consequences. The starting point for this sense of pleasure comes from a distorted self-identity that gives them a sense of happiness when they kneel on the ground and move themselves to tears.
Men always encounter emotional setbacks at some stage in their lives. However, there is no systematic way to deal with women, and most men lack understanding of women. Like the guy just now, if you do what I said, you will definitely be able to pursue his goddess, but what if you do? You don't understand women, you don't understand the true meaning of sexual interaction, let alone you and the goddess are already in love, even if you are married, who can guarantee that you will always be together?
He doesn't understand that if you don't have the ability to make a woman like you, then your kindness to her is meaningless, and may even become pressure on her. You're just trying to satisfy your desire to be good to her.
He also doesn't understand that in a relationship, a woman doesn't care how much you invest in her, she only cares about how much you invest in you. Everyone values what they invest in.
Why say men are not bad, women do not love. In addition to being humorous, skilled, and mentally strong, bad men are also good at seducing women to invest. "Even if a bad boy loves a woman very much, he will not pursue her only by full sincerity, because he knows the importance of skills. Although using skills, it does not prevent him from being sincere with his beloved woman, and the two do not conflict.".
One morning, the girl lying in my arms and I talked about one of her spare tires. She told me how good and infatuated this spare tire was for her, and she had been waiting for her for seven years. Although I think he's pretty good in every aspect, she just doesn't want her to get close.
I said, why don't you give him a chance to try it.
She said she didn't feel it, right, that's the "no feeling". But why, then, can she have sex with me only once, and not with the spare tire that has been waiting for years? Of course, there are various reasons for this. The most important thing is to spare a woman he doesn't understand.
Many people have no money and are not handsome anymore. "If your way of thinking and skills have not changed, you cannot make a woman like you or fall in love with you.". That's doomed to a spare tire for a lifetime.
If you don't have an effective way to learn to understand women, every brick you move will become a PUA wall.
Because you are not strong, you need to be respected by others. When you become strong, you realize that you don't need to be respected at all.
"Because you are not liked by women, you always want to be recognized by women.". When you become attractive, you realize that you don't need a woman's approval at all.
Because you are afraid of being laughed at, you decide to only do what others think is right. Many people always try to give you answers, but no one can really think for you. Afraid of being laughed at, but what can others do when they finish laughing?
Those who cannot afford to lose often cannot win.
In the recent film "Duck King" directed by Wang Jing, there is a classic line: "Whoever gains a woman's heart, gains the world.". A woman is a person who loves vanity and is filled with various tangled needs and fantasies. "If you don't understand her, then you can't meet her needs. Even if you treat her well, feelings can't be like doing business. You can repay me as much as I pay. Even if it's business, there are many people who fail in business because you don't understand.".
Many people say they want to look more handsome, more beautiful, or improve their abilities in a certain area. But not everyone is willing to give everything to achieve this goal. The heroes in my heart are all self-supporting. The way to prove yourself is to make yourself stronger. Rather than cowardly accepting the fate that this world and society bring to you.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, but you don't grasp them or only discover them in the end!
The most painful thing in life is not failure. But I could have chosen to miss it.
Love is not for cowards, lazy, selfish people. Sometimes it takes a little risk.
