Post Date December, 03 2023
I am a college classmate with Xiaofan. We have lived together for four years. Our relationship is not generally good. Xiaofan fell in love with his boyfriend Ahu in his sophomore year. Their love time is very sweet. Looking at Xiaofan's happiness, I am also happy for her. At the same time, I am also thinking, where is my boyfriend?
After two years of getting along with each other, the three of us have a very good relationship. Ahu treats me like a sister. One year after graduating from college, Xiao Fan and A Hu got married. At that time, they had no house or car because they had just worked, but their relationship was very good. Because the house we rented is not far away, I often go to their house to eat miso. The three people get along very well.
Xiaofan became pregnant soon. She was very painful and had a great reaction when she was pregnant. There was no way she could do it. She went back to her hometown for a period of rest. During that time, I saw that Ahu was very busy at work every day, so I often prepared meals for him to send, or went directly to his home to cook for him. During the time with A Hu, I feel that A Hu is really a good man. No matter what, he is an ideal husband. I feel that Xiao Fan is really happy.
I remember that night, I prepared a meal and waited for A Hu to come back. As a result, A Hu was a little drunk. When he came back, he was staggered, so I helped him to the bedroom. When I helped him take off his clothes and wipe his body, I suddenly had a terrible idea. I liked him, so I slowly held his face and kissed him. The resulting kiss seemed to wake him up, and I couldn't think too much about it.
In this way, we often dated together in the days when Xiao Fan was away. In fact, I never thought of robbing Xiaofan's husband, but when I am with him, I can't control myself. After the reaction period, Xiao Fan came back and specially invited me to dinner and said that I had taken care of her husband for so long. At the dinner table, I found that Ah Hu was very considerate in serving food to Xiao Fan. My heart was broken. I was just a substitute for Xiao Fan when he was away.
Just when I was going to break up with A Hu, I suddenly found that I was pregnant. I was pregnant with Xiao Fan's husband's child. In fact, I know I'm doing something wrong. I shouldn't be bothered by my best friend's husband, but I can't help it. What should I do now? I really don't want to lose such a good sister as Xiao Fan, but what about my child?
Reply from the consultant:
Why don't you find a boyfriend in the years you've been together? Perhaps it is because there is always only one man around you, so you will be moved by him. Since this is the end of the matter, you have to bear the pain yourself. If you don't want to get into trouble with your best friend, you should secretly find a reason to leave. Besides, your best friend's husband doesn't really love you. He has his own wife and children, which you should understand. As for a child, it is also a life. If you want to be born, you should be prepared to be single, but the relationship between you and your girlfriend will not be the same as before, and you should also be prepared. I hope that you will not be confused on the road of love in the future. The road of life is still long. I hope you can open your mind a bit and face your feelings correctly.
