Post Date December, 02 2023
Many girls are too lazy to dress up (myself, too) and often say, "Appearance is not everything anyway, it depends on strength." Yes, strength is important, but in a society where it's important to look first, basic attire is still necessary. The author cites a short story in the article that makes us have to admit that even though we are "lazy", we ultimately need to know how to invest in ourselves, so that we can love life even more.
There are no ugly women, only lazy women. Good looks and good lives often complement each other, appearing in pairs.
I have always been a girl who loves to stink beautiful. When I was very young, I loved to secretly wear my mother's high-heeled shoes and apply her lipstick. When I was in my second year of junior high, I secretly went home and had my ears pierced.
The love of beauty is originally the nature of many women, regardless of whether they are beautiful or not, or yearn for beauty. Therefore, I am quite tired of the statement that "it's better to look good than to live well." Why do we make such a comparison and suppress a girl's nature to approach beauty, as if those who value appearance should be superficial. There are not a few people who are brainwashed by this illogical statement.
My neighbor sister roast to me that there was a colleague in her unit who was almost her age and worked hard, but her dress was too dark. A girl in her twenties dressed like an aunt all day long, not only that, but her hair was often greasy, and she had never seen her make up. "If you encounter overtime, it's even more exaggerated, with dark circles under your eyes and acne all over your chin and forehead. That's really a tragedy.".
Every time I go out for a meeting with a client, the supervisor will tell everyone who wants to attend that they should look better dressed, but everyone understands that it's just for the less fastidious colleague. A female colleague once wanted to take her shopping, buy skin care products, cosmetics, new clothes, and jewelry, but she refused. She said she was not interested in these things and was more willing to spend her time studying.
My neighbor's sister told me that her colleagues felt it a pity that she worked so hard, but her supervisor didn't attach much importance to her. She never took her out to talk about business. Except for the meetings she had to attend, she rarely actually had face-to-face communication with customers, so most of her efforts were just behind closed doors. It would be much better if she could pay a little attention to her appearance and become a girl who dresses appropriately and has exquisite makeup.
In fact, there are many women who would shout, "I'm busy with my work, but I don't have any kungfu skills that stink.". I'm tired with my children, so I don't have time to love beauty. "No matter how busy you are, you should treat yourself well. Making yourself look good is part of making yourself better. Besides, it doesn't make you look like Fan Bingbing. It won't take you too long.". The appearance of you is often the appearance of your soul, hiding your lifestyle, so stop making excuses for your laziness.
I have always felt that looking good is the beginning and cornerstone of living well.
In this era of increasing emphasis on external appearance, if you are depressed, poorly dressed, and have insufficient respect for yourself, who will trust your abilities and professional standards?
I know only one person who, despite his appearance, really belongs to passersby A. We don't have much contact at ordinary times, and occasionally I see her taking selfies in her circle of friends, but I find she's getting better looking. This beautiful appearance is not only due to her better figure and makeup, but also due to her youthful and vibrant feeling. Her photos seem to say, "I am more beautiful, my life is better.".
It was a spontaneous confidence, and behind that confidence, it seemed as if you could see that the girl was actively on the path of "looking good", and finally found an exclusive temperament that was exclusive to her, while also living a more and more beautiful life.
Later, I asked her out for coffee and chatted a lot about the past year or two, which deepened the feeling of an otherwise ordinary face that can bring a person breathtaking beauty. She said that she likes her current self very much, and there are always people chatting up when walking on the street.
Whenever you are still a girl who is willing to pursue beauty, you will find that as long as you organize yourself, you will gradually fly towards the direction of "living well". Just like my old classmate, I hope that I can buy Chinese clothes and clothes, and I will work harder and make progress, find a good job to make money. With a good job and a good salary, naturally I can reach out to better people, and then broaden my horizons, She can also attract good people. Her husband is an executive in a large company. They are now living a happy life and have plans to create people.
She is becoming more and more beautiful and closer to the way she likes to look. "She confirmed the word" phase is born from the heart. "However, after the age of 25, our face and body are no longer simply controlled by genes. It will evolve as you become accustomed to your situation.".
Many times, looking good and living good complement each other, appearing in pairs.
There are many young and beautiful women around me who have passed their thirties and are still young and beautiful. They have self-discipline in their lives, do not eat junk food at will, develop tight muscles, and know what clothes are more suitable for them. Even on days without love and moisture, they do not forget to take care of themselves, wander between girls and women, have a good mood that can be easily grasped, and can live a comfortable life, It's difficult for them not to turn around like this.
People may have different experiences and lifestyles, and each person may have a different definition of success as a way to live well. But in this era, I still firmly believe that those who we think live well must also look good. The term "good looking" here does not mean that the facial features are better than stars, and the figure is better than models. It is a relentless pursuit of physical beauty
。 Living a good life does not necessarily mean earning a lot of money and having a very good job, but rather loving life, possessing strong possessions, and having a sense of belonging.
Love of dress and emphasis on the soul are not two incompatible opposites. It is just a way for you to love life and fully manage yourself. It is your vow to "live well" and never yield, and it is an inevitable reward for always loving beauty and always knowing how to invest in yourself.
All white swans used to be ugly ducklings who were not willing to be ordinary. Promise me to invest in myself at the age when I should most invest in myself.
