Post Date December, 02 2023
I am very famous in our village, not only because my father is the village director, but also because I am good at reading, and I have been admitted to a provincial key high school, and I have ranked top in the school every time. Unfortunately, my family didn't have much money when I graduated from high school. I gave up the opportunity to go to college and became a worker in the local factory on the recommendation of my relatives.
Unexpectedly, three years ago, our village engaged in development and made a lot of money by pledging land, so our family became rich. Suddenly, we had more than one million property. During that time, there were more people who introduced me. One day when I went to someone's house for a wedding reception, Sister Wang went straight to me and handed me a note with the mobile phone number of a girl named Qu Yan written on it.
Sister Wang is a famous gold matchmaker in our village. She is very authoritative. According to the elders, her success rate in introducing objects to others is 100%. She asked me to call Qu Yan when I had time to ask someone to come out and sit down. Some of my father-in-law monks are confused and say that I don't know this girl at all! Indeed, there are hundreds of people in our village, many of whom I have never seen. Sister Wang was a little angry and said, "Don't you know each other when you meet? People are interested in you. You should ask her out of politeness!" I had to agree.
To tell the truth, after meeting Qu Yan, I didn't have a good impression of her. From the conversation, I can tell that she is very wild and likes to play outside, and she is very headstrong and can't listen to advice. However, I listened to Sister Wang and took her to the central area of Wuhan for a day "out of courtesy". We went to Zhongshan Park and Wuguang.
After returning, I didn't contact Qu Yan for several days, but Sister Wang suddenly found me and asked me how I could be so irresponsible. She said that since I asked someone else to come out, I recognized the marriage. I should be responsible for her and hurry home to discuss the marriage. I was shocked and said that we just went to the park together that day. Why should we be responsible for her? But Big Sister Wang spoke eloquently and said that we went out to play together. Only God knows what we did. He is a girl and can't stand the wind and wind.
Although I think there is something wrong with what Sister Wang said, I can't refute it. In addition, she has a good relationship with our elders, and the family members are not willing to kiss her face, so they helped me settle the marriage. So we got married only one month after we met.
I was still thinking that although I was not satisfied with her before, I can still cultivate feelings slowly after marriage, and I can never be happy after marriage. But I never thought that since I got married, there would be no peace in my family.
At first, I was dissatisfied with the money. My family has many relatives. When we got married, I let Qu Yan keep all the red envelopes sent by relatives. After that, the elders came home to drink tea one after another, and all of them were given red envelopes, which added up to about 30000 yuan. After the event, I thought that the gift money should be paid back and should be put away separately. Anyway, the family is not short of this money. But I searched at home for a long time and found that the money had disappeared. I asked Qu Yan where she had received the money. She said lightly that she had taken it out and spent it. Of course I don't believe it, but she still said that.
According to our local saying, happy money cannot be moved casually because it is unlucky. Both my parents and I told Qu Yan that if she wanted money, she could tell us directly and we would give it to her, but she said we suspected her and had a big fight with me. The parents sighed and said, forget it, it's only tens of thousands of dollars, let her go.
But I don't think so. How can we say that these happy money is also given to us by relatives, which is considered as the common property of the husband and wife. Qu Yan stealthily takes it, which shows that she and I are not in the same heart. After a period of time, I suddenly found a passbook in my closet. The deposit amount was 30000 yuan, and the account name was Qu Yan. What's more, she has a five-year fixed term.
More than that, after Qu Yan entered the house, some scattered cash in our house often disappeared. Of course, she will not admit that it is related to her, but I feel like a fool and married a thief.
Qu Yan's "ability" is more than that. She didn't have a job. When she first got married, she was a little more restrained. She didn't go out to play without seeing anyone. But then I already found something wrong - she has endless phone calls for 24 hours, and she always carries me out to answer the phone.
I want to know who calls my wife all day and often in the middle of the night. But I can't ask Qu Yan, she will quarrel with me. Qu Yan also plays tricks with me. Sometimes when her mobile phone rings, I rush to answer it and find that the other person is a woman. But she still runs outside the door to talk. I get suspicious and sneak out, and I will hear a male voice coming from her phone. Obviously, she colludes with the other person, and first find a woman to call me and paralyze me.
There were several times when I fell asleep in the middle of the night. The next day, my parents secretly told me that Qu Yan got up in the middle of the night to answer the phone and talked for several hours. They woke up, but didn't dare to talk about her.
At the end of the year before last, our son was born, but Qu Yan, as a mother, only gave birth and did not raise. She did not care about anything. She even asked me to feed her baby with milk powder, and it became my duty to carry excrement and urine. At night, the child is hungry or urinates. If I fall asleep, Qu Yan can make the child cry all night, and she will lie still.
One day I was on the night shift. I was tired when I came home in the morning and went back to my room to sleep. Qu Yan left her 5-month-old child alone and went to bed. The child bumped his head against the coffee table in the living room and cried. After I woke up, I threw a tantrum at Qu Yan and said she didn't look like a mother. Qu Yan immediately left home with her hidden passbook.
After that, Qu Yan didn't answer my phone. I went to her house to find her, and found that she was not there. Her parents also ignored me. My parents asked me to get Qu Yan back, so I had to go to her house again to beg her mother. After a long time of good words and apologies, her mother finally took me to a rental house in Hanyang to find her daughter.
I said I wanted to apologize to Qu Yan and take her shopping. She was very happy to take me to a dance hall near her rental house. As soon as she entered, many people greeted her, whether it was the waitress or the men and women who went to consume. At first sight, she was a regular customer there. I asked her if she often came here. She said that she spent time here every day and played all night when she ran away from home.
After coming out, I told Qu Yan that this was not a good place, and told her not to come back again. She agreed verbally, but looked very disapproval. I really don't know my wife. Considering all her performances, I even thought that her life might be like this before she married me.
After returning home this time, I didn't know what was wrong with Qu Yan. She always deliberately made trouble at home.
When the family ate the New Year meal, the atmosphere was supposed to be good. Qu Yan suddenly stood up, flippantly shook her glass on the table, and said to my parents, "I did it, you can do it at will." The action and expression were like she was drinking with a group of friends. My parents' face was immediately ugly. In fact, it was reasonable for my daughter-in-law not to propose a toast to her parents-in-law at New Year's dinner. She had to do so, which seemed more like a provocation to me.
Moreover, it seems to be intentional. Every time a relative comes to our house to play, Qu Yan quarrels with me for no reason, which embarrasses me and my parents. Later, relatives dared not go to our house. I simply suspected that Qu Yan was deliberately damaging our family's reputation. In the past two years, the drama of Qu Yan leaving home has been staged many times. The last time was in July this year. She quarreled with my mother. My parents were so angry that they said they wanted to move. I didn't agree, so Qu Yan ran away from home again.
I inquired everywhere. I heard that Qu Yan was staying at a relative's house this time, but she played outside during the day and seldom slept at night. I don't know where she was. When I first got married, every time I quarreled with Qu Yan, my parents always scolded me, but this time, they gave up on this daughter-in-law completely. Qu Yan has been away from home for a long time. I wanted to find her, but her parents refused to let me divorce her. Now, for her sake, my relationship with my parents is also very stiff.
I didn't want to divorce Qu Yan, but the child is still so young, how can I leave my mother? Besides, I think I was cheated by Qu Yan in this marriage, so I divorced her and asked her to share my property. I am not willing to do so.
(Intern editor: Cai Junyi)
