Post Date December, 02 2023
The Red Light of Marriage
Marriage allows two strangers to get along day and night, revealing their own strengths and weaknesses. Whether they can live a good life or not is actually about character. A person who is serious, responsible, inclusive, open-minded, proactive, kind, optimistic, and hardworking is not only able to make achievements in their work, but also not too bad at home management. They are willing to put their heart into every aspect of life.
Fear is the fear that once our lives stabilize, we will lose the motivation to continue making progress. The inherent flaws of human nature, such as laziness, blame, complaint, shirking responsibility, fear of giving, etc., can make us no longer pay close attention and care for our partners as we do when we are in love. Therefore, many times when our partners are unhappy, we may find it difficult to detect them or be lazy to deal with them even if we notice them. Moreover, we may no longer pay attention to their emotions, emotions, and joys, and life becomes a robot like programming.
Learn to be grateful and cherish
When marriage lights up the red light and reaches the point where it needs to be saved, it only receives our attention. This is a very scary thing, which is enough to demonstrate our love for evasion, laziness, and strong patience. We would rather stay in a state of suffering for each other or ourselves than face and solve problems early, so that the problem becomes more and more serious. In the end, someone can't bear it anymore, and marriage lights up the red light, On the brink of divorce, how can we save the marriage?
You truly understand gratitude and cherish in your heart, just wanting to embrace the other person because of love, rather than any other factor forcing you. Whether you love the other person or not, he can feel it. If the other party is still willing to open up and accept you, they can perceive your inner feelings. Embracing represents tolerance and acceptance, representing not letting go. Everyone has the softest pure land in their hearts, and they have the ability to discern right from wrong with proper mindfulness. However, many times we disguise ourselves as strong and indifferent outside. We need to have wisdom, see the fragility behind human nature, see the true thoughts of others, and do anything with half the effort.
Strengthen one's inner self
It is also important to strengthen one's own inner self. Don't forget your original intention due to any emotions or difficulties, easily be controlled by others, and deviate from your original trajectory. Firm goals and unwavering beliefs will surely lead to a different landscape.
Managing a good marriage is a discipline that requires a mature heart, wisdom in life, and a dedicated spirit of dedication. Embracing is not a method, but a way for two people to communicate and express love. When two people are together, it is necessary to frequently communicate with each other's inner world, integrate their information, find the best way to get along, find common goals in marriage, and find the driving force for life.
