Post Date December, 03 2023
"I have been married to my husband for more than two years and have been immersed in the happiness of our two worlds. Although the elderly on both sides have long been eager to embrace their grandchildren, we hope to enjoy a little more freedom. Especially, my husband always has good ideas in his mind, and always knows where to have fun and where to eat. Every time we have a holiday, we go out in small groups to play.". "But accidentally, I became pregnant, and both my husband and I were surprised. I blamed my husband for being careless.". What shall I do? After a long time of entanglement, my husband cheerfully said that since the child was born after reporting, he also gave his parents an explanation. He looked very happy. Think about it. Although this child didn't arrive as I expected, it's still my own child, and I'm certainly delighted. "But not long after I was pregnant, I began to worry, partly with joy and partly with worry: In books, there are also some friends around me. My husband cheated during pregnancy, and I am very worried. I also know that I should not doubt his love for me, but I don't know why. I am always afraid of his cheating.". "I hate being so suspicious and unsure of myself, but there are many things we can't do together as before, and he is so outgoing and popular that I can't control those worries. How can I avoid my husband cheating during pregnancy?"?
Weiqing Marriage Counselor:
"After a wife becomes pregnant, the number of times a couple has sex automatically decreases. Men fall out of love because they are not satisfied, feel pressure to switch roles, or other accidental factors.". What are you going to do as a quasi him? During pregnancy, how do you avoid cheating on your husband?
Pay attention to the feelings of your husband
Before pregnancy, the husband was the shoulder on which the wife depended, and she felt her strength and importance here. They have always been the object of doting on their parents. During pregnancy, the wife devotes much of her time and energy to the fetus. Parents also focus a lot of attention on their unborn grandchildren. Invisibly, it will reduce the "status" of the husband in the family. In family life, a husband is more like a young child, and he hopes to extend the privileges and privileges enjoyed in childhood into family life. Therefore, during this period of time, if you do not receive enough attention, coupled with some external temptations, then the husband is easily derailed. Therefore, during pregnancy, a wife can regularly "date" with her husband or use co parenting as a common "dating theme", regularly accompany her husband to movies, and do something he likes to do to make him realize that you still care about her.
Properly handle the physiological needs of the husband
"Sex should be avoided during the early and late stages of pregnancy, but for various reasons, many women have no sexual interest throughout their pregnancy, coupled with a period of time after the birth of a child, which can leave their husbands in a state of abstinence for a considerable period of time.". To emphasize to female friends, it is easy for a husband to cheat during pregnancy. A wife should attach importance to her husband's sexual problems during pregnancy, and both parties should discuss and find a suitable solution.
Respect him and never let his parents accuse him
When a husband takes care of children, there are inevitably many shortcomings. At this time, family members and even elders will say that he is in the way, which will make the husband feel that he is not valued in the family. What a man needs most is recognition and respect from his close family, feeling that his efforts have been rewarded. Therefore, when the husband has done something for the family and the fetus, you should express your love and gratitude to him, and let him know your love and respect.
To sum up, during a wife's pregnancy, in order to prevent subtle changes in her husband, it is also necessary to actively pay attention to her husband. In addition, in view of your husband's great playfulness, you can work with him to do things that you can still participate in, and guide him to properly focus on you and the baby.
