Post Date December, 02 2023
As the saying goes, "A woman chases a man through a veil, and a man chases a woman through a mountain.". There are certain skills in how to pursue a girl you like, and you cannot blindly engage in conversation, confession, and so on. There are always ways and means.
When any girl is chased by someone, her psychology is very complex. She may be very happy, but with a bit of fear, she has a contradictory mentality of wanting to refuse and welcoming the boy who broke into her peaceful life. She didn't mean to. Don't think she's testing you, she's actually struggling with herself, she's afraid of being hurt. Most girls don't actively pursue the boys they like, except for girls who really like them too much or who have a more courageous personality. So, if you really like a girl and think she has some interest in you, take the initiative and don't nag her. If you don't feel bad about yourself, maybe the person you like will also feel bad. But remember, at the beginning, don't tell a girl I love you, which will make her feel that you can easily say these three words and don't know how to cherish them.
Boys, don't be afraid that your initiative will bring her discomfort. If you don't take the initiative, she won't take the initiative, and the emotional temperature will gradually fade. If your initial confession is rejected by her, it's normal. Don't be discouraged, who knows what this girl is thinking? Perhaps if you express yourself twice again, she will be moved by you. A kind and good girl is easily moved. Some people say that boys are really difficult, chasing girls is too difficult. However, my feeling is that this phenomenon is inseparable from the social role positioning of men and women. From a psychological perspective, women are always passive. Men should be brave, while girls are inherently emotional and easily immersed in love. Although you have worked hard, once your sincerity touches her, you will receive double love. Such examples are everywhere around us. Girls are very gentle and considerate towards their boyfriends. In exchange for this sweetness, the initial hard work is nothing, and most good girls are very devoted and dedicated when they enter into love. Boys should not be like children, girls are lazy and hope to find a way to rely on them. Show her your sense of responsibility.
Chasing a girl requires relaxation and relaxation. Don't stick to her every day. Whoever treats you like this, you will also get tired of it. The key to chasing girls is the eight words - cold and hot, easy to get, which is also a good way to chase girls. "If you stick to someone all day, naturally you don't feel good about them. If you leave them alone for two days, they may think of you.". Some people are eager to chase girls and like to buy things for girls. In fact, chasing girls is the most taboo. As the saying goes, "No merit, no reward." By constantly sending things like this, you are exerting pressure on the other party, and they may feel that they owe you something. If they cannot return it, they will find ways to avoid associating with you, lest they always owe you something.
In short, chasing girls, be brave, boys take the initiative, and pursue the girls you like with sincerity.
