How can a girlfriend break through if she doesn't want to go home with her for the Chinese New Year

1 Keyword: How to maintain freshness with girls

Q: Crow Da Da, hello, I have been following you for a long time. After successfully intercepting my sister, I also established a relationship with him and called him my husband, as well as the voice version. I asked her out and she said she didn't have time because her company's real estate was preparing to open. Sometimes she had to work late every night, and it would be after the Chinese New Year before we could meet. Her work was very fulfilling. She chats with me every day whenever she has free time, but I have already talked to her every day and I am very familiar with her. I don't know how to maintain my attractiveness or freshness right now. What should I do during this period? Her value is much higher than mine

Answer: There are many ways to create freshness, and it is not necessary to constantly enrich one's topic. Of course, this is a common method, and there are also other techniques to increase the topic.

1. Emotions

Provide different emotional feelings, joke with her, and even argue over a small matter, allowing the girl to return to the feeling of being in love with you.

2. Surprise

Giving girls a good feeling after their emotions is appropriate, which is to give them small gifts and make DIY things on their own. Exquisite gifts do not need to be too expensive, and novelty is enough.

Of course, under the premise of doing these things, your mentality should not be too exposed to your needs, feeling that you must please and make her happy, which is meaningless. Just do these things normally.

2 keywords: girlfriend unwilling to go home with herself for the Chinese New Year

Q: I have been following for so long and have been watching. I have known my girlfriend for almost half a year, and I have also cohabited. I asked her if she would like to go back with me for the Chinese New Year, but she doesn't want to go home and says she wants to experience the feeling of Chinese New Year outside. May I ask Da Da what the situation is

Answer: There are two possibilities. The first one is that a girl wants to meet someone else outside, but this possibility is rare. From your description, there is no sign of this. Moreover, this is essentially to make herself better and make the girl more like you, which is the best strategy.

The second type is for a girl who feels like she hasn't achieved much in a year and is embarrassed to go home. This possibility is quite high, so when faced with this situation, you need to be tolerant and speak to her from her perspective. If you really don't want to, let's just let it go. We need to get to know the girl more, so that others will be more willing to be with us.

If you want a girl to have the opportunity to come home with you, it's about letting her truly accept you from the bottom of her heart and fall in love with you, so that we can celebrate the Chinese New Year together and have the possibility of being together.

3 keywords: exposing too much demand for girls

Q: I did a good job in personal self-improvement before. My favorite colleague's sister had a chat and played with me, which slightly exposed a sense of need. The other day, when we went out to play together, the girl leaned against me and took the opportunity to hold hands with her without resistance. As a result, the pace was a bit fast, and I kissed on the same day without any further advancement. The current situation is that chatting is very hot. I have made some mistakes before learning about love strategies, and I have a bit of a kneeling and licking rhythm. I chat for over an hour every day, and even buy flowers and gifts. I am a bit confused now. Should I maintain my previous attitude towards my sister and not be too enthusiastic? Those who rush to get married, seek great guidance from the crow.

Answer: Of course, the most important thing for us to communicate with girls is not to expose your sense of need too much. Once you expose your sense of need, it means that you are very hungry and lack value, and there is a lack of women around you.

Therefore, our sense of need must be lower than that of girls, so that girls in turn will care more about you. Then you can also understand my value. When you are very valuable and love yourself, you will naturally have a normal feeling of communication with women.

4 keywords; There was a period of inactivity

Q: # Crow loves to answer questions # Dirty. I ask a question about myself, which is that every time I first go to a new city, I am in good condition and my chat relationship with girls is progressing quickly. I even use those modes very smoothly. But after a period of time, my state was completely lost and I couldn't use the mode smoothly. What was the situation??

Answer: At the beginning of the Lianzhao, there was a content called "Life Construction", which we have always emphasized that everyone should do. We attract women in this way, our own state of life is very rich, and then when the girl sees this value, she attracts her. Only then will there be the following skills, including when chatting, which is also the same. Without life, one will be very lacking, exposing a sense of need.

So you have come to a new place, full of hope, in a good mood, and your natural state has opened up, but without these, work pressure and life trivialities have made you lose this state.

Therefore, you should first adjust your mindset, focus more on life construction, and not have too much pressure. The natural state will return.