Post Date December, 02 2023
1 Keyword: Saying the wrong thing
Q: # Crow loves to answer questions # Crow Dada, a good friend of hers, introduced a girl who was her best friend and chatted at night. This good friend was her best friend, and I knew she was trying to set a routine. When I posted a sentence, she said, "You guys played well," and she ignored me. I replied. Otherwise, she wouldn't give me your QQ. She's very suitable for being a friend. Did I say something wrong? I know the question was a bit confusing. What should I do
Answer: Your question is indeed written in a rather messy way, but I can basically understand it. You did say the wrong thing. The girl said you had a good time, so don't ignore me. This is because the girl is complaining in a small temper. As a result, you, Bianben Gali, said, yes. That's why she gave me your QQ, which made the girl even more angry. Moreover, it's difficult to continue talking and I don't know what to reply to you. But fortunately, this problem is not very serious. You can wait for the girl's response first. If you haven't responded, then you can go talk to her the next day and start the topic again.
2 keywords: confession rejected
Q: A female colleague in the company has been liking me for most of the year and has been teasing me all the time. However, due to concerns about the company's romance, I didn't respond at first; I also fell in love with her from being a bit interested in her to later on; But due to my immaturity and relying on someone else's liking for me, I happened to have something to do with her. Then I gave her a cold shoulder and repeatedly hinted that the invitation was rejected. Then, when someone moved closer, I refused because I didn't want her to endure hardship. Finally, due to physical reasons, I felt like I was about to lose her and expressed my love. What I didn't want the company to know was finally made known to half of the people in the company, and in the end, they refused! Can I ask if it can be redeemed? How can we recover it?
Answer: In the current situation, if you want to salvage it, there is still a success rate, after all, people have been liking you for so long and have invested a lot in your emotions. You don't know how to cherish it until you're about to lose it. Do you think people will give you this opportunity? If you want to save it, you need to establish a relatively friendly and ordinary friendship relationship with your sister first. Otherwise, if you don't even have a friend, how can you save it? Then, during the conversation with her, you find an opportunity to date her. During the dating process, you bravely hold her hand and hug her waist, and your relationship will quickly heat up.
3 keywords: Do you want to confess?
Q: I have a problem now. I have a girl I like. We have known each other for almost five years. We met in high school, and I thought I had a crush on her. I was about to graduate, so I let it go. I wanted to graduate soon and she was one year younger than me. I don't want long-distance relationships, but it's not the key. The key is that she was in the same university as me, but I don't think she came here for me, After I graduated, I had very little contact with her, so my feelings for her began to ignite in my heart again. However, I always felt that I couldn't understand her. Although I could chat occasionally, it was mostly me who came to her, and the topics were mostly mine. When I talked to her, I was always very reserved and didn't know what to talk about because I had already graduated, so I wasn't in the same city. Recently, I went there, I also invited her out for dinner, but we are four people. She and I both brought one with us. Sometimes I feel like she's interested in me, but sometimes I feel like she's very far away from me and I can't see through her at all. My friends around me all say they want me to confess quickly that if we can achieve something, we can do it, but I don't know yet. What should I do now
Answer: Firstly, you must not confess. Because there have been countless cases of confessing death, you don't need to follow suit. Furthermore, based on your description, I am not yet able to determine whether a girl likes you or not, but there is absolutely no aversion, and you have not exposed your sense of need. So, what you should do now is to establish attraction with her during the conversation, focus on topics that interest her, and then guide and lead her on the topics. In the end, this attraction is transformed into a way of hinting (telling the girl, I have a feeling that you seem to like me.) into a girl's liking for you, so that you can be expressed
4 keywords; It's all a routine
Q: # Crow loves to answer questions # Crow is big, hello. I have been worshipping your emotional Bible for a long time. Recently, I had a question to ask: I met a nurse working in a hospital on a public blind date, two years younger than me. We played games together and had a good understanding, and we had WeChat communication. I am usually busy with work, and I don't communicate much on WeChat. I met four times a month, Every time we meet, we always give her small gifts (flowers, jewelry, dolls, etc.) that are not valuable. At first, it was quite satisfying. On Sunday, when preparing to intercept, the girl asked her to evaluate her impression of me. She directly said, "I feel like you are very kind, but I don't feel like you are in love. Am I being trapped? The urban routine is deep, and I want to go back to the countryside. I didn't give up and stubbornly intercepted her once again. I haven't replied yet. In the early morning, I updated a sentence on Weibo (silently reflecting on myself). Should I wait for a while to attract her again, or should I just stop there? Please clarify with the boss.
Answer: Firstly, you and the girl have entered the ranks of the "friendship zone". The girl only regards you as an ordinary friend and does not have any feelings of love. So why is this? In the previous stage, you communicated with the girl and exposed your sense of need. You are indeed very kind to the girl, giving her gifts, and may also care about her, but what women want is precisely not this feeling, no emotional love, plain and indifferent, That's not just a friend.
So what we need to do is to establish this feeling of love with girls, to joke with girls, learn to tease them, and in the process, start giving them some rejection to create a sense of attraction.
