Post Date December, 02 2023
Since ancient times, there has been no shortage of flatterers. He Shen is one of the successful representatives in the officialdom, and the workplace is no exception. So, in the face of colleagues who love to flatter and speak well in the workplace, how should you deal with them so as not to offend others and adhere to your own principles? Let's take a look together.
"Obviously, you stayed up late last night and worked overtime, wearing dark circles under your eyes today, and he praised you for" looking really good. "; The leader is a potbellied old man, and in her mouth, she becomes "Yushu Linfeng"; Obviously, it was a very boring team building arrangement, but he pretended to agree and was as happy as if he were going on a trip abroad
To put it mildly, this type of person is called a flatterer. However, from a positive perspective, this type of person is called someone who is skilled in speaking and transmits positive energy - as long as the "degree" is well grasped, not excessive, not intentionally confusing right and wrong, and not with overly obvious utilitarian and snobbish goals. In fact, people who have this habit of speaking can be viewed from a goodwill perspective.
Response: When it comes to unimportant matters, instead of expressing disapproval or criticism directly, we adopt a more complimentary and encouraging attitude, just to make others feel comfortable and not embarrassed. It is more of a kind intention, not related to hypocrisy. Try to look at such people from a good perspective, and even learn from them if possible, because such people are far more popular than sharp eyed critics who always hit the point.
Big mouth, straight temper
"He's like a three year old kid who can't hide his thoughts. Today, someone came to pick you up in a BMW when he was off work, and he saw it. I'm sure he'll be joking with you early tomorrow morning.". Apart from life and death, in his opinion, there is almost nothing important in life, nothing worthy of special stress or attention, and nothing worthy of precaution or caution.
"Everything is a breeze in his ear, and when he talks about it, he cannot keep secrets and has no worries.". Even he doesn't understand why you feel upset because of his carelessness. Why on earth?
Response: This type of person is immature in personality and lacks a strong sense of propriety. He will change as he goes deeper into the world. As long as it doesn't involve too much sensitive content, it's still easy to get along with such people. If you are also a frank and heartless person, you may feel that he is a person to be with; "But if Tao Butong doesn't conspire, just talk to him about eating and drinking, and maintain a moderate distance.".
