Post Date December, 02 2023
For the first couple who have no marriage experience, living in marriage for a period of time is relatively self-centered. When dealing with and dealing with some family affairs, they have some adolescent impulses. When they are extremely angry, they will break things and deliberately say something against their will to stimulate each other. At this time, the couple is like a very angry father who bites his teeth at his rebellious and disobedient children, The children can't stand being blamed and play the trick of "running away from home".
The 'adolescence' impulse in marriage is closely related to many factors. If a couple has a hot temper, it is difficult to change their family's' adolescence 'in a short time.' It is hard to change the mountains and rivers, and it is hard to change their temperament '. When you meet such a lover, you should be a' water woman '. When he is angry, you must not add fuel to the fire. If you ignore him, he will automatically cool down and put out the fire. As he gets older, he will become more and more sensible and lose his temper as time goes on, because when he encounters the same kind of things that made him angry before, he will look at and deal with it in a different way, and many things will not be so hot when he sees them. This is a sign of human maturity.
A friend who was preparing to remarry said with deep feelings: "It's too lonely to live alone, and there is no one to talk to when I return home. I will feel that my hard work is not worth it, and I will feel that my life is too failed. I will still seek my own marriage, but I will not have the impulse to remarry in my youth, and I will no longer try to be serious in everything. The future marriage does not need to be affectionate, and what is needed is a person who can live with himself and cooperate happily ".
My mother described my father in such a vivid way: "When I was young, I started to get angry and threw things on the ground with my feet. I didn't get rid of my hatred until I still burned them in the fire. My face was still blue." Now, my father, who is nearly 70 years old, is always doing the chores of my mother when she was young, buying vegetables, washing vegetables, cutting vegetables, cooking, sweeping the floor, and so on. He also understands that my mother has suffered too much when she was young, Taking care of the food and drink of a large family also includes his bad temper.
Time is a good medicine for curing the 'puberty' of marriage, and people's mentality determines the survival of the 'puberty' of family and marriage. At any time, maintain a peaceful attitude of life, treat trivial matters of life with tolerance, and solve them with a reasonable amount, and your marriage 'puberty' will automatically disappear. The so-called "downplay the matter and enjoy life", why not do it!
