Post Date December, 02 2023
When I first met the ashtray, he gave me the feeling of being generous, and also poor and generous. This trait makes me very anxious.
If he had only 600 yuan in his pocket, he would invite me to dinner with all of it. Don't have the cold air of tomorrow after today.
In our third month of dating, I went shopping and tried on a necklace. The pendant was a cute five pointed starfish. But seeing the price, I still forced him to leave. Actually, it wasn't expensive either, but at that time, I was all about saving money to buy more important things, and I always felt embarrassed.
A few days later, he excitedly came to me with a necklace, thinking he would give me a surprise. Unexpectedly, I only cared about the money and cursed him from beginning to end. He was furious and immediately swore that in the future, he would voluntarily give me something worth more than a thousand yuan, which would be a dog! To express his indignation and my wickedness.
I only thought he would casually say it, but when it comes to counting, men are really competitive. The little starfish is naturally happy to wear it, but at the same time, I have never received any more valuable gifts. This is the price of cursing.
Fortunately, he just said he wouldn't take the initiative to deliver, but he could be passive. In the second year of our relationship, our economy began to ease off. When we went shopping and saw something we liked, he still actively wanted to buy it for me. However, when I saw an outrageous price, I still pulled him, but after we left, there was no further discussion. I guess he occasionally wants to sneak back, but when he thinks of my ugly face back then, let's forget it.
During holidays and festivals, I also receive gifts, but at my strong request, they all turn into red envelopes. He was willing to give, but he often teased me a few words, and a well behaved woman fell into the eyes of money so crudely.
In the third year of our relationship, we became legal and our economy was much better, but we only maintained the AA system. When he went to Tiffany and saw the golden broad beans, he was very moved. He looked at the price and said, 'Do you want it?'. I said I wanted to. He said buy it for you. I said I'll think again. He looked at me and said, 'There's only one chance. If he doesn't buy this time, the store will be closed down in the future.'. The words are both heartless and resolute.
He still knows how to give things to me, but in an instant, he transformed from a red envelope to a piggy bank, a puppet, a doll, and my friends who had set up my desk. Fortunately, I am still very happy. Anyway, they are all gifts, regardless of their status. Moreover, I think he has always used his heart.
Gradually, I began to go on business trips frequently, and the frequency of shopping in Nanjing became less and less. One winter, I was in Sogo, Tsim Sha Tsui, and saw a pair of colorful short snow boots. The color was very Christmas, so I sent him a text message. It was probably a long distance away, and he responded very gently. He said, 'Buy it, count it as a Christmas gift I gave you, and come back to give you a discount.'. I want to be obedient. This tone has not been seen in many years. Although it may be a bit expensive, hurry up and buy it. I put on my shoes several times, and one day while walking on the road, I suddenly remembered, you bastard, you didn't even give me the money! Taking out his phone and cursing him, he chuckled and said, 'Girl, you're so rich, why don't you pay for it yourself?'...
Yes, you can pay for it yourself, it has become a catchphrase after him.
A few days ago, due to swelling in my feet, I wanted to buy new shoes. I sat on the toilet and asked him lying in bed. You said I bought Vans or Minnetonka, which are the only two I can barely wear. According to the character's personality, he should be able to say, 'I bought everything!'! Anyway, you have money. And I'll get him back, there's some damn money! Unexpectedly, he paused and roared, 'What are you buying, Vans? You don't think your sneakers are enough, so he threw them all away for you.'. In an instant, I had a feeling of constipation.
I remember my colleague going shopping, buying a shirt, and telling the story of having to take off the tag before going home.
The degradation of men is that women earn their own money and spend their own money. Can't they also overlook it?
