Post Date November, 17 2024
I can confidently tell you that during my brief period of 26, I have had two very embarrassing experiences before and after.
Oh my goodness, how embarrassed and frustrated I was at the time! Having known a girl for just a month, our relationship was like a thermometer falling into a furnace - it suddenly reached its peak. I coaxed the gorgeous girl into my hands. We have discussed getting a Marriage certificate in a few days
What a wonderful atmosphere that day! Returning from the moon, the girl stopped walking after arriving at my bachelor's dormitory and slowly began to undress. The moonlight was like water, and I even saw a black mole on her lower abdomen. But I found something similar to tofu in her lower body; I also feel that the smell from her body makes me feel very pungent and unpleasant. Although I have never smelled a woman so close, I don't think it should be such a scent.
Comment: It seems that this young man is truly "blessed". He met a modern woman who was not only beautiful but also very open in her first love. There is no traditional female shyness or reserve in her, and she voluntarily undresses and undresses her boyfriend who has only known her for a month, preparing to handle her wedding affairs in advance. But a good thing delivered to the door is not necessarily a blessing. The overly open girl's lower body resembled tofu, and the pungent smell she emitted from her body indicated that there was something wrong with her body.
For a few seconds, my blood was boiling. But next, I don't know what's going on, I can't... by heaven, what an uncomfortable thing this is! Watching the beautiful body of my youth, I couldn't make myself stand up. At that moment, I hated myself so much that if I had a knife, I would chop it off at once. I tried again and again... but I couldn't do anything. It's just a tool for urinating
The girl's closed eyes slowly opened and widened, sneering, "So your consciousness is so high?" She stood up and quickly put on her clothes. I will never forget her contemptuous gaze and words before leaving: "I would rather be raped than like a gentle gentleman like you. Do you know what it means to say 'gentle' to you
For nearly a year afterwards, I couldn't even lift my head. When I couldn't bear the frustration in my heart, I began to pay attention to relevant popular science knowledge. I learned from the book that there are tofu like things and unpleasant odors in the female genitals, indicating that there may be inflammation in the reproductive tract, at least for someone who is not hygienic. Oh my goodness, she used to be sick! I am secretly grateful for my performance at that time, otherwise wouldn't I be plagued by illness now? I feel nauseous when I think of that tofu like thing and the pungent smell.
Comment: This tofu like thing is inflammatory vaginal discharge. Leucorrhea is a normal physiological phenomenon in women, but its characteristics, secretion, and odor can reflect the health status of the body. Physiological leucorrhea is colorless, looks like egg white, slightly sticky, and can be increased before and after ovulation and during Sexual arousal. Suffering from general gynecological diseases can also lead to an increase in vaginal discharge. Its color, character and smell can be changed, or it is white curd, or foam, or bean curd residue, or has fishy smell. These abnormal vaginal discharge are caused by fungal, trichomonas, and bacterial infections. Gonorrhea in venereal diseases and Cervicitis caused by chlamydia trachomatis infection are often characterized by an increase in leucorrhea and purulent mucus.
Regardless of the cause of the change in vaginal discharge, it is best to go to the hospital for diagnosis and treatment. Sexual contact should be avoided before a clear diagnosis is made to prevent the spread of the disease.
However, it can not be concluded from the girl's leucorrhea and unpleasant smell that she must have sexually transmitted diseases. Generally, when women suffer from sexually transmitted diseases, they often have mild symptoms or Asymptomatic characteristics, which is not easy for me to detect. However, once the two most common sexually transmitted diseases, such as gonorrhea or non gonococcal Urethritis, are transmitted to men through sexual contact, their symptoms will be very obvious in men. Fortunately, this young man was able to get away with it. This also reminds young men and women who are in love: Do you truly understand your romantic partner? Are you mentally prepared to live together with the other party? Many modern young people take sex life very casually and can go to bed as long as both parties are willing. Of course, this is their freedom, but I'm afraid no one wants to be infected with sexually transmitted diseases as a result.
When I met my first girlfriend again, she had already become a waitress at a third rate bar. When she saw me, she twisted her waist and walked over, spraying a mouthful of smoke on my face, She said, "What was wrong with you at that time? Can you tell me?" I told her seriously, "That day I found out you had inflammation. You might be sick, but I didn't dare to tell you. You should go see a doctor." She was so scared that she almost jumped up and said, "How do you know? How annoying!" This time it was my turn to look at her contemptuously, "If you continue like this, you will ruin yourself
However, I don't know why, my second love once again appeared ED. That girl is gentle and gentle, and she is also quite beautiful. When we were in love, we hugged and kissed again and again. Strangely, every time I first kissed and hugged her, I felt an impulse, but in a short time, this impulse quietly disappeared. Out of some kind of mentality, that day I made some dishes and tried to persuade the girl to drink a lot of beer. The girl is very pure and clean, but I still can't have an erection
I had to pretend to be drunk and apologetic, and spend the night peacefully with her. She was so moved that she hugged me and wept, repeatedly claiming that I was a good person and swearing not to marry unless it was me. But I felt that I couldn't harm the girl, so I made an excuse myself and quietly left her.
This second ED incident has dealt a particularly heavy blow to me, and I dare not speak to anyone. If the impurity of the first girl made me subconsciously refuse an erection, then the second girl should be very pure, it seems that I really have a problem.
Comment: The reason for experiencing ED during contact with the second girl is basically psychological. Perhaps the impression of the first failure is too profound, forming a malignant stimulus that prevents one from experiencing normal sexual reactions. It may also be that there is not enough psychological communication with the girl, which leads to Sexual arousal disorder. It seems that this girl did not intend to have sex with him when she was sober, so when faced with the body of a drunken woman, he also lost the ability to have an erection. It can be seen that human sexual behavior is not as simple as animal mating. Animals are completely controlled by hormones within their receptors and periodically engage in estrus and complete mating, with only sex and no estrus. But human sexual union is much more complex, without emotional communication and psychological resonance, it is difficult to produce sexual arousal. At this point, if treated by a psychologist, the problem may be easily solved.
I carried this heavy burden through a long August until I met the third girl - my current wife Ye.
Ye Zi is a bit thin, not quite beautiful. But from the first day I met her, I felt a dormant emotion awakened by her. She never uses perfume, but I am fascinated by her fragrance. Every time I have the opportunity to get together, I will hold her and smell it. I will be very excited when I smell it, so I want to hold her down. But every time she struggled so hard that I couldn't succeed. The more she does this, the more impulsive I become
We love deeply. A year later, when she finally made up her mind to get a Marriage certificate with me, I kept silent for a long time, told her my problem, and then knelt down on the ground with tears and asked her: "Let me try to see if I can be a man, husband and father. I can't hurt you!"
Comment: Some young people, although they have no sexual experience, for some reason and without reason suspect that they have ED problems, and like this young person, they insist on trying to confirm whether they have ED. In fact, the simplest exclusion method is to seek examination from a male urologist or urologist at a reputable hospital. If you have this question and don't want to see a doctor, what are the methods for self examination? Yes, the method is very simple. The first is to pay attention to whether one wakes up in the middle of the night or wakes up in the morning with a penile erection; The second is whether there is an erection of the penis when seeing, hearing, or feeling sexual stimulation; The third is to try whether it is possible to massage the penis with your hands to make it erect and ejaculate. No matter which method is used, as long as the penis has sufficient erection and maintains it for a period of time, ED can be ruled out, so it is not only a matter of trying to confirm whether you are normal or not.
Kind hearted, she lowered her head and blushed, saying she needed to consider it. The leaves haven't been considering for a long time, but for me, it's like three seasons apart. She didn't struggle for the first time... At that moment, I dare say I was the most normal man in the world
After marriage, we had the crystallization of love, still twins!
I have never understood what happened to my second ED. Later on, I saw a book that said it was called 'no call' because the attraction between the sexes was not enough. If two people reluctantly got married, sexual life would not be harmonious or happy. The book also states that ED is sometimes a protective umbrella for men.
Comment: The statement that 'ED is sometimes a protective umbrella for men' is quite farfetched. On the surface, temporary ED helped this young man avoid the ravages of disease transmission. But if the first girlfriend is clean, has no unpleasant smell, and is proficient in flirting, but is a AIDS virus carrier, then it will be hard to escape the bad luck if the man who has known her for only a month and has no in-depth understanding of her life experience and behavior accepts the enjoyment delivered to her?
I know that there are still many ED patients living in the shadow of inferiority complex who cannot lift their heads, and I also know that there are many unmarried ED patients wandering on the painful crossroads.
But I dare to declare, "I used to be an ED patient. I feel fortunate and proud of my ED
It is not common for unmarried individuals to experience ED, and the common causes are psychological disorders caused by a lack of sexual knowledge and incorrect sexual beliefs. If you really suffer from ED, you should first face up to your own disease, not hide from doctors, take the initiative to find a specialist for diagnosis and treatment, find out the cause, see whether it is caused by organic or psychological reasons, and then Symptomatic treatment. Psychological ED can quickly recover as long as the psychological factors that cause the disorder are successfully removed. If diagnosed with severe organic ED, it is necessary to seek treatment at a reputable hospital as soon as possible.
