Post Date November, 17 2024
There are several psychological reasons for women's infidelity, including emptiness and loneliness, hatred and revenge, seeking stimulation, or greed for money and things. Besides these reasons, what are the other psychological reasons for women's infidelity?
For infidelity after marriage, men have a relatively higher probability than women, and if a woman has infidelity, it is mostly due to being hurt by men. In addition, we need to know what psychological reasons exist for women's infidelity after marriage.
Resentment mentality
Sexual activity is a very important aspect of marital life. If the husband neglects to provide warmth to his wife due to sexual dysfunction, or is busy pursuing career, or if the husband is addicted to alcohol and sex outside and cannot meet his wife's normal physiological needs, over time, it will cause the wife to develop a resentment mentality, which is highly likely to lead to "red apricot out of the wall".
Loneliness psychology
Due to work reasons or separation from two places, some husbands are often not around their wives. Although distance produces beauty, long-term separation between two places can only lead to a weakening of the relationship between both parties, especially for husbands who lack a sense of family responsibility, do not care about their wives, and do not frequently communicate to express their longing. Over time, it will inevitably lead to a trend of indifference between the couple, causing their wives to feel lonely and lack spiritual support. At this point, if a suitable opposite sex is encountered, the wife may lose the ability to resist temptation. And slightly rational women will search for emotional confidants through Aixi Net. Long term contact between adult men and women is always prone to ambiguity, leading to offline sexual relationships. Moreover, the website's relationship advocates good gathering and good dispersion, and it can end as soon as you want, making it the preferred place for young women to cheat.
Retaliatory psychology
Some husbands are unfaithful to their wives and engage in extramarital affairs. Once things are exposed, it often leads to an unhappy ending. If the consideration of being a wife is not appropriate, it may lead to a retaliatory mentality in anger and seek refuge. There are many impulsive female users on Aixilou. After being betrayed by their emotions, once they encounter a suitable candidate on the website, they will selflessly embrace men.
Superior psychology
Some wives have higher education or superior status than their husbands. If a husband is unwilling to be proactive, it is easy for his wife to feel that her husband is not worthy of her. So wives who have better conditions than their husbands in all aspects are also more likely to have extramarital affairs. At this point, if her boss or colleague is a capable and charming man, admiration arises naturally. Eventually succumbing to one's own emotions, resulting in infidelity.
Find the feeling of first love again
A plain life, boring days, besides finding a lover, what else can make a woman who is tired of daily necessities feel like a princess in a fairy tale again? My husband always holds a cigarette in his mouth after work, resting his smelly sweaty feet on the coffee table, lazily flipping through the newspaper and watching TV, occasionally shouting, "Is the meal ready? I'm hungry
Lovers always make women feel like they are in love. They never make women cook or wash dishes, and they always say, "Baby, what do you want to eat
After marriage, most women have to go out to work to support their families, and when they return home, they also have countless household chores and need to educate their children, often enduring greater pressure than men. So we all want to find the feeling of being taken care of and pampered. Moreover, women face more temptations than men throughout their lives. Any woman with a slight beauty should have countless experiences of being entangled by men from childhood to adulthood. With men outside of marriage, women can regain the feeling of first love.
The drive for vanity
Men can go to the massage parlor, hug the next generation and sing in the K hall, and stay up at night. Women are also human beings, and they have to pay a lot more than men. They have children, love their husbands and children, why can't women cheat? Why do women have to endure humiliation, be clean and meticulous in their work? Times have changed, and women's vanity must also be fulfilled. They no longer want to revolve around the stove, men, and children. If he could find a lover, he would accompany him on the street for a day, looking at the dazzling array of goods, and keep saying, "Baby, this dress is really beautiful. You must look great on it, give it a try?" "Baby, this handbag matches your black dress very well, buy it
But for the husband, even if he reluctantly accompanies you shopping, he is always absent-minded. When you stop in front of high-end clothing, he will use an excuse to walk away and say, "I'll go out and smoke a cigarette; When you try on a beautiful fashion and invite him as a counselor, he will say, "Do you still buy so many clothes in your cabinet. It's women's own decision not to leave.
Major psychological factors of women's infidelity
Women in a state of sexual hunger and thirst need nourishment, including love and sex. Women have sex because of love, and without love, their desire for sex also shrinks. Long term dissatisfaction with marriage can put women in a state of dual hunger and thirst for love and sex. At this point, if another man takes the initiative to care for and appreciate her, the woman will not hesitate to use him to fill the void and hunger, and mistake extramarital love for true love.
Advice: Problems within a marriage that are dragged into a third party or even a second family will make the relationship more complex and difficult to solve. Trying to get people outside of marriage to solve their marital problems is like a little bear licking honey at the tip of a knife, risking cutting its tongue for a bit of sweetness.
Rich sexual fantasy Women with rich sexual fantasy are easy to be teased. The so-called sexy is not only due to the charm of appearance, but also due to the ability of neutral imagination. Women with rich sexual fantasy ability naturally need more opportunities to practice their sexual dreams. When suitable men appear, their temptation naturally increases.
Advice: It's one thing to think in your head. Once sexual fantasy is implemented into your behavior, you should bear the consequences.
The more inferiority complex a woman feels in exchange for love through sex, the more she hopes to please a man by satisfying his sexual needs, and to gain his love through her own dedication. They mistakenly interpret a man's sexual needs for her as' he loves me very much because he really wants to have sex with me '. Due to the inability to fulfill their desire for love, women have to exchange sex.
Advice: Sex cannot be exchanged for love, it only deepens the harm. Learn to start by loving yourself.
There are two important stages of sexual psychological development in a woman's life: the first stage is between the ages of 4 and 6, which is developed through the relationship with her parents to develop her first sexual consciousness; The second time was during adolescence. If the sexual psychology development is not smooth in these two stages, women's sexual consciousness will exhibit abnormalities, such as fetishism, sexual addiction, sexual apathy, and so on. Many sexual and psychological disorders in women are left behind during these two periods.
Advice: Find the source of the wound and start healing early, happiness is not too late.
Sex and emptiness, stress. In the face of stress and emptiness, the quickest way for modern people to relieve it is to vent, which also includes venting their sexual desire. Having a carefree encounter with a stranger in a strange place seems to be the least costly way to vent. Who knows that after a brief pleasure, everything will be surrounded again, and the feeling of powerlessness will also deepen.
Advice: Sex is not a panacea for all diseases. Relieving stress and emptiness through sex is like walking in a circular maze.
Nowadays, cheating in society is no longer a rare thing. As long as you are willing to play, I believe you will definitely gain something. I don't know if this is the progress of society or the retreat of human nature. Of course, when playing this game, we all need to follow the rules of the game, otherwise there won't be any good results.
There is a popular saying in the Jianghu, 'Knowing is death, not knowing is life', which has a certain truth because there are many times when we don't need to know many things about each other, as long as we are happy together.
Even lovers need some space for each other. Don't worry about how much privacy the other person has not been told to you, because only by not knowing can we get along better. In the end, the other person is just your lover, not your wife or husband. Why bother to know about things that may make you unhappy.
Why do women cheat? The above is an analysis of the psychological reasons for women's infidelity. Women, regardless of their psychological reasons, should think twice before acting, and think about the consequences of doing so for themselves.
