Sexual activity between couples can promote intimacy and make life more harmonious. If sexual activity is stopped and turned into sexual punishment, the sweet marriage will soon come to an end.
Women are more likely to choose "sexual punishment" than men
Due to the different ways in which men and women express their emotions, it is easy to develop the idea that "men are the ones in love". The concepts of "which man is not lascivious" and "heroes are sad and beautiful" all suggest that "sex" is a weakness of men. A man can skip meals, spend money, and smoke, but it's even more uncomfortable to have them skip sex than to kill them The "Song of the Four Seasons" of Sweet Love
Women, on the other hand, are on the contrary, and social beliefs believe that women's sexual life is dispensable. These concepts make women feel that having sex is a loss, so they naturally want men to meet their demands through "sexual punishment", and believe that this is a natural thing.
Sexual punishment is harmful but not beneficial
Women should avoid using "sexual punishment", and do not think that it can make your man obedient. Using it once or twice may still be effective, but if used too much, its side effects can be very serious.
Firstly, 'sexual punishment' damages family relationships, blocks the channels for normal communication and exchange between couples, and leads to conflicts between couples. The correct way is to calmly explore and solve problems; Secondly, "sexual punishment" can easily make the punished party feel that "sex" is a transaction, insulting their normal feelings of sexual life, and even causing physiological disorders for both spouses.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)