Post Date December, 03 2023
An unintentional beginning and an unknown ending meet in this instant.
The breakup of a couple caused a great uproar.
The woman invited many relatives and friends to criticize her husband's outrageous behavior in marriage in front of everyone.
When his daughter fell ill and underwent surgery, he not only ignored her, but also took half of his family's money and went on a solo trip to the South Pole. He also praised it as' taking more risks while young '.
He doesn't like work and often arrives late and leaves early. He helped him contact several companies but was fired or persuaded to leave. He has been supporting his family with the money I earn these years
"He doesn't do housework at home. He never remembers my daughter's birthday and mine. I gave him a famous brand wallet on wedding anniversary. He sold it and played mahjong with the money."
When I had postpartum depression and needed comfort the most, he said I pretended to be sick. When I was in the most pain, I hit my head against the wall, and he even laughed at me acting, not even acting well
Piece by piece, it does sound chilling to the heart. The woman narrated calmly, while the man was filled with shame and anger. Amidst everyone's criticism and emotion, his face became increasingly purple and unable to refute all the facts. Finally, in a fit of anger, he swept away.
At this point in the matter, divorce is irreparable. The two quickly signed the agreement, and the man was forced to give up the house and most of the property. The child followed the mother, and the woman also spoke out, not letting the man see the child again. As a result, the couple parted ways.
After a few years, everyone gathered again and coincidentally met the man who remarried.
It is interesting that this man, who was once criticized by his ex-wife as worthless, now takes meticulous care of his wife and children. He poured hot water for his wife who was on vacation, carefully peeled off the crab shells for his little daughter, and fed her crab meat. Where is it still like the male chauvinism that used to be self centered and didn't even help when the oil bottle fell.
A good person asked his wife: How does her husband treat her? The wife immediately frowned and smiled, acknowledging her husband's strengths: "He loves work, is ambitious, takes care of the family, and is considerate. Most importantly, he also understands romance. He never forgets to prepare small gifts and flowers for me on all holidays. Marrying someone like this makes me very happy and satisfied." Everyone looked at each other, unable to believe that what he heard was the same person we knew.
Talking about his transformation with the man, he felt a bit embarrassed, but still admitted that the failure of his previous marriage did bring him a huge blow. So much so that when we fall in love again, those harsh words always come to mind, and every time we think of them, it feels like a lump in our throat, extremely unpleasant.
However, as time passed, he gradually realized that his ex-wife's ruthless "scar removal" had instead become his "love Bible". He clearly understands what the other party needs the most and what they reject the most when managing a relationship. Following the plan and gradually overcoming it, he gradually captured his heart and achieved positive results.
Later, they met again with his ex-wife and talked about their second successful marriage. She wasn't surprised, just smiled a bit sentimentally and asked if we had seen a manga about cacti.
That cartoon: A person hugged a cactus tightly and left with thorns all over his body; And the second person who came smoothly embraced the prickly cactus, and from then on, the outcome was successful.
She said, "I knew I had exposed his shortcomings in front of so many people, completely disregarding his face. It was indeed too extreme and ruthless. But he was like that cactus, and I could do my best to take away the thorns all over him, but if he didn't feel the pain to the bone, he wouldn't be able to wake up and repent.
So even if he meets the next better person, new thorns will still grow recklessly and both will be injured again.
