Post Date December, 03 2023
Although marriage is based on emotions, it is quite difficult for some couples to reconcile their sexual life after marriage, which is disharmony. In view of this, both men and women should undergo sexual health checks before marriage to understand whether they have sexual diseases and whether their sexual psychology is healthy. Given that some content cannot be identified in hospitals in the short term, and there are few such consulting institutions in China, couples need to learn some sexual knowledge on their own during their interactions, pay more attention to the other party, and both parties should also be honest with each other.
The intensity of sexual desire varies among individuals. A person with strong sexual desire chooses a person with low sexual desire, and it is difficult to have harmonious sexual life after marriage. How to learn about the other party's situation? The only way is for both parties to truthfully tell each other their own situation. The intensity of sexual desire is divided into two levels: the first level is the degree of sexual physiological strength.
American sexologist Kinsey has found through extensive investigation that adolescence The earlier a person starts with their first menstrual discharge, the stronger their lifelong sexual ability, manifested as frequent and continuous sexual activity. This finding is suitable for 85% of people. Male sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 18-25, and gradually decreases irreversibly thereafter, decreasing by about half every 10 years. Female sexual ability is strongest between the ages of 35-45, and then begins to decline, but the rate of decline is slower than that of men of the same age.>>Emotional Guide: Give Stress Take a break from your marriage
The strength of a person's sexual psychology is also a reflection of their sexual desire intensity. Men and women who have been exposed to new cultures and ideas since childhood, are willing and adept at discovering pleasure and romance in sexual life. They have a strong ability to coordinate sexual life with their spouses and have a rich sexual psychology. People living in ignorant and closed environments often experience sexual biases and obstacles.
Men with lower levels of education tend to overlook sexual communication. If a woman with a positive personality and a high demand for psychological romantic feelings marries him, she will feel that he is too "rude" and "impersonal", and the man will also feel that she is too "promiscuous" and "busy". On the contrary, if a sexually conservative woman marries a man with a positive attitude towards sex, she will feel that the man is "destroying" herself, and the man will feel that the woman is a puppet, and sexual life is boring and boring.
In addition, the older a person is, the lower their sexual ability is. Therefore, from a sexual perspective, it is generally believed that young and middle-aged people with strong sexual desire and high sexual demands are not suitable for marrying elderly people. Generally, the age difference between the two parties should not exceed 15 years old.
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)
