Post Date December, 03 2023
Introduction: "He said he fell in love with another woman, can love be like this? Can a man really fall in love with two women at the same time?" A woman cried to a psychologist. Her husband told her that he had fallen in love with another woman, but he still loved her.
Can a man fall in love with two women at the same time? A special interview with relevant psychological experts on sexual health in China conducted the following analysis.
In fact, when he had a second relationship, he also hoped that she would maintain that family and raise children well; And when his love was not going smoothly, or before the woman was completely under his control, he begged her not to divorce. In short, he wanted her to understand that it was not his fault.
Many married men need two or more women to feel safe.
More married men are unable to handle marriage with a red light or cope with new women - falling in love with two women, and it seems difficult for them to break up with one and marry the other.
A man who cannot love two women can assume that such a man is unlikely to love two women or not love any women at all. It is obvious that they attract many women sexually, hoping that they care about him and give themselves to him - he understands his sexual desire or needs as' love '. However, he actually doesn't love any women.
These men's emotional problems simply do not conform to any chemical reaction pattern. They will not actively crack this triangular relationship, nor will they or will not use their extra energy to develop two love relationships. They have an immature narcissistic mentality and are afraid of having a real relationship with women. He would rather have a messy bed, even if there were no women to pity, than enjoy the tense and orderly life brought about by establishing an equal and intimate relationship with an honest partner.
For many men, their biggest fear is generally being trapped in a happy marriage. On the one hand, they are afraid to share their life with a woman who has seen through him, and on the other hand, they are unwilling to give up on a woman who sees themselves as a hero or treasure. When the reality of life leaves them at a loss, they always try to run away and relive the free and unrestrained life of their youth. Nevertheless, they may not be strong enough, or they may not have the courage to really run away. They often yearn for their love dreams, like children who cannot do without their mothers. They always hope to receive enough comfort and security.
Before he realized it, staying by his side as a wife might help him, but if he wanted to love or be in love with two women, it would be meaningless wishful thinking. Before he could see the true essence of his problem, he had already harmed the women who entered his life.
Between two women, he will not and will find it difficult to choose which one because they both attract him and make him afraid. When he has two women, he feels safe and satisfied, while when he is with one woman, he lacks confidence and is extremely restless. In fact, what he needs is psychological counseling, not women.
Men and women must understand that when a man falls in love with two women, no matter which party uses the term "love", it can have potential misleading effects. Remember, love is not just a general emotion, but also includes mutual dedication and attachment. As for "love is selfless dedication", it is mostly just a great empty talk.
(Intern Editor: Cai Junyi)
