Post Date December, 03 2023
The most important thing in life is not effort, but choice. In the new era of marriage, while men complain about women's material possessions, they also use the standards of men's appreciation of women to choose their partner. In other words, what kind of woman a man chooses as his wife is equivalent to choosing what kind of life.
So, in the eyes of Chinese men, what kind of woman is considered good.
1、 A well proportioned figure and a reasonable appearance
Basically, there is a strong aversion towards fat women, ugly women, and overly beautiful women. You need to believe that people are visual animals, so if your appearance features are not enough to attract difficult to attract attention, even if you are excellent in other places, men will not give you the opportunity to love. For this reason, a symmetrical figure and a reasonable appearance are the first steps in establishing emotions. It should be emphasized that men's rejection of overly beautiful women is due to their lack of confidence.
2、 Emotional specificity, never give men a green hat
People are all selfish groups. In the emotional world, men are more cautious than women. Women's ex boyfriends and even ex husbands are definitely emotional forbidden zones for men. In fact, the vast majority of men can tolerate their own promiscuity, but cannot tolerate their girlfriend or wife cheating. Reality tells us that it is difficult for women who cheat to be forgiven by men. Although women may feel unfair about it, this is the way of life. Therefore, emotional specificity is the second step for men to prioritize women.
3、 The essence of kindness and the character of respecting the elderly and loving the young
Husband and wife are the core of marriage, although many men may neglect their parents after marriage and even scold them for their wives. Even so, men never allow anyone except themselves to criticize their parents, including their wives and children. For this reason, married women must have a heart, not only have a kind nature, but also learn to please their mother-in-law, otherwise they may be isolated by their husbands and mother-in-law.
4、 Open-minded and optimistic, giving men space for independence
Women are the homestay group, while men are the free range group. In fact, many women like to stick to men. Before marriage, the reason why men become clingy to women is because men know it's not easy to get married with a woman they like. After marriage, the reason why men dislike women's stickiness is due to their nature. For this, a woman who can give men full trust and enough space to play with her brothers can make men feel comfortable. Not adding red or red, but adding speed to WeChat and WeChat. (Doubi has no integrity, mysterious shock, all know)
5、 Independent personality and dedicated career
80% of the funds are in the hands of 20% of people, which means that not all men want their loved ones to be housewives. Therefore, women must have their own careers.
On the one hand, to avoid deviating from society, and on the other hand, it can also be considered as a contribution to family finances on Weibo. Reality tells us that women with independent careers are more likely to receive respect from men in family life.
6、 Being willing to spend money gives men a sense of existence
Being stingy after marriage means not wanting a husband to work too hard in the process of pursuing a career. In fact, being stingy with a woman does not make a man grateful, because being stingy is equivalent to squeezing a man into giving in marriage, thereby weakening his sense of existence.
Smart women must learn to be restrained in losing and demanding in the emotional realm. People have been together for a long time, why are they reluctant to break up? It is because they are unwilling to let their efforts go to waste. Therefore, women who know how to make men give are more likely to make men want to give up.
7、 Understand respect and never ridicule men in public
Almost everyone believes that there is no need to puff up their face and pretend to be fat. In fact, everyone is stubbornly fighting for the so-called face and life. Although the most direct way to reflect face is through their social status after struggle, not everyone can achieve success after struggle.
For this reason, women should learn to give men face in front of their family and friends, which is not a hypocritical expression, but a minimum etiquette for protecting their husbands. Taunting a husband in public not only tears his face, but also brings him the label of a shrew.
8、 Willing to obey, yet able to hold onto the bottom line of one's heart
Men don't like to work against themselves, let alone women who are too obedient. Women who confront themselves will make men feel too dominant, and women who are too submissive will also make men feel that the other person has no thoughts. People are all cheap bones.
Therefore, in the game of marriage, women should not only stick to their bottom line, but also listen to men's suggestions in some matters and not be stingy in giving certain praise to men for their correct decisions.
9、 Rarely complain, transmit positive energy to men
Don't compare the success of others' husbands with the failure of your husbands, don't feel too sad or complain about the current situation of life, and don't often sigh or shed tears when facing the heavy pressure of life.
Because negative energy can invisibly transmit a sense of oppression to men, making them feel unhappy living with you. In addition, various external pressures from the family can make men gasp for breath. Life has given us a heavy burden, and we need to learn to relieve ourselves under the burden.
