Sexual Health
After marriage, the husband is also responsible for meeting the physiological needs of his ex-wife
Wen Tao (both pseudonyms) got married to me shortly after his divorce from his ex-wife Huizi.
I work in the same unit as Wen Tao, and I am his assistant. Once, when we couldn't help ourselves, we were bumped into by Huizi. Therefore, it was no use for Wen Tao and Huizi to repeatedly admit their mistakes. I tried to come to the door to explain, but she scolded us as bad headed. Later, it was so frustrating that both Wen Tao and Huizi couldn't go down the stairs. Therefore, in a fit of anger, they officially filed for divorce.
To be honest, that day we were very happy after successfully signing a big order, and drank a little more at night. Somehow, the two of us fell asleep together. Huizi passed by Wentao's company on her way home at night and came in. She originally wanted to go home with Wentao, but she saw such a scene. At that time, I thought she wanted to kill me and had a heart.
I have been with Mr. Wen Tao for over three years, and to be honest, this is the first time I have had physical contact with him. Usually, Wen Tao is very serious and rarely jokes with his subordinates. Many girls are scared to death when they see him. Who dares to share his thoughts? I am also the same. When I go to work, I always feel scared and afraid of being scolded by him for neglecting or doing wrong things. Therefore, in my impression, he is just a cold-blooded workaholic, and his impression is not positive. Besides a pure work relationship, we rarely even smile at each other.
Maybe I was really drunk that day. How did I get back to the company and sleep in Mr. Wen Tao's bed? My memory of this period is blank, and I can't even be sure if I had a relationship with him.
Later on, Wen Tao became my husband. After Huizi's divorce, I was forced to marry such a successful and successful person. This was my luck, and it was also Huizi's success. Therefore, I could assist him in work and take care of him in life. I originally thought that such a small life could lead to happiness from then on.
After more than a year of marriage and nine months of pregnancy, I recently realized that Wen Tao and Huizi had never been disconnected since their divorce. I am not a stingy woman, and it is normal not to have been disconnected. After all, they still have two children and their marriage relationship is over, but the child always needs to be called his father.
However, after further understanding, I found out that after Wen Tao and I got married, whenever Huizi had physiological needs, they would always call Wen Tao over. Wen Tao felt guilty and sorry for her, so he tried to meet her demands every time. Moreover, this situation had been going on for more than half a year. As soon as Huizi got divorced, she began to regret it. Seeing that we were already married, she had no other choice, so she always tried to share Wen Tao with me, so that I couldn't get all of Wen Tao.
No wonder I always feel that after Wen Tao and I got married, they always had more than enough energy and energy to spare. I feel that at the age of just over 40, the tiger has lost its power. I always thought that Wen Tao was often exhausted due to the pressure of work and too much socializing. For this reason, I also specially brought tonics to strengthen my body, but unexpectedly, it was cheaper than Wen Tao's ex-wife Huizi.
I know that Wen Tao gambled his anger to marry me, but he never let go of Huizi in his heart. Even if I tried hard, I couldn't completely replace Huizi's position in Wen Tao's mind. A few days ago, Wen Tao planned to divide his shares into six parts: one part to be transferred to his ex-wife, two parts to be transferred to his two daughters, one part to be given to me, and one part to be left for my child. He only took one part himself. I feel that this is not conducive to the operation of the company. If his ex-wife intervenes, the company may collapse. Therefore, I advised him not to do so, but he advised me, "Huizi is not easy either. People won't get her, so let's give her some money." It also taught me to be open-minded and not to worry too much, Anyway, the shares in your name and in our unborn child's name are enough for your mother and son to live a very prosperous life. "I thought about it, but I didn't care anymore.
But now, things are not as I imagined. The divorced woman not only takes the shares but also shares the man who already belongs to me. How can I swallow this breath? Especially Wen Tao, if you don't love me, if you still love her, why bother to say that you want to take responsibility for me and marry me? What era is it now, and we are all adults again. Since it is something we are willing to do, why should others take responsibility for it?
I know that my husband harbors a sense of guilt towards his ex-wife and always thinks about how to compensate their mother and daughter, but the problem is that the vast majority of men like or aspire to live a life with wives and concubines, which will make him very satisfied and have a sense of conquest. Therefore, it is impossible for him to have any further contact with Huizi, after all, no one can stop him from having his daughter as an excuse to meet his ex-wife.
But I really dare not make trouble, not only do I need to worry about the upcoming child in my stomach. I don't want the child to be born without a father, but more importantly, I know that I don't even have the qualification to make trouble because I know the weight of my ex-wife in his heart. If I don't make a good deal, it can easily become awkward, and I will also push Wen Tao to the other party like his ex-wife did. Whether or not to make trouble always makes me feel aggrieved, and Huizi is always trying to empty my husband, which is not a problem. For this, I have thought of many ways privately, but this is something they do behind closed doors. I cannot go to her house to install surveillance cameras for evidence collection, so obtaining evidence is also quite difficult.
Although there is no evidence or evidence, I can feel from my husband's decreasing sexual ability that I am increasingly worried that Huizi's destruction of her ex husband will one day cause his body to completely collapse. At the same time, I am more concerned that this insidious woman is using men's nature to retaliate against our marriage.
If I don't make a fuss, I just assume that nothing will happen. This is not my personality, after all, now that Wen Tao is my husband, why do you still have the right to share my husband?
(Intern Editor: Lai Jiaxing)